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#21
No contact except for child health or transportation. Don’t ask her anything regarding her. She is an adult.
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#22
It’s her responsibility to seek help from her psychiatrist snd her doctor and her therapist. It’s not your job to fix her especially since she is the one left to be with another man. What can you do here? Nothing. At this point it is your responsibility to take care of your kids. Not worry about your ex. And I agree with the other poster. File for child support. She must contribute.
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What It’s Like to be in a Codependent Relationship with a Bipolar Partner | by Nikola Grace Radley | Fearless She Wrote | Medium This is a very good article to check out. __________________ "I carried a watermelon?" President of the no F's given society. |
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I'm not saying it's just bipolar I think this guy just got to her at a vulnerable point she has been depressed for a couple months he told her he had training in helping those suffering from depression so she talked to him while I was working I didn't know until after when I found their messages he eventually told her he had feelings for her kicker is he has training as a 911 dispatcher
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Wait she left her kids ?? Don’t get me wrong I’m sure you’re a capable father it’s just so unusual to have a mother or any parent for that matter to just leave the children. You don’t need to get her help. I can appreciate that you want to, that you feel responsible to do it, and you are used to cleaning up her messes. You can’t do it this time. She has clearly demonstrated she has no regard for the sanctity of your relationship. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk __________________ "I carried a watermelon?" President of the no F's given society. |
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I hate to say it, but vulnerable or not this guy didn’t “get “ to her. She let him in. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk __________________ "I carried a watermelon?" President of the no F's given society. |
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I know foster parents get bad press sometimes, but they are the angels who come down and scoop them up, carry them to a safe place, and give them a loving home. __________________ You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd |
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OP, you are so totally in a codependent relationship with her. Please get a therapist ASAP. Your need to fix her (what you call "helping") is interfering with you taking care of the business of divorce. You should be driving this train and you are allowing her to. Get an attorney tomorrow and file. She needs to be paying the required amount of support for these kids while she isn't living in the home and also after divorce.
Get in the driver's seat here. Get therapy so you can repair yourself and not attract another broken person. She is most definitely broken. |
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Crazy World these days!
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