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Default Nov 29, 2021 at 12:22 AM
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Yes I definitely felt pressure to be nice, especially with it being my job. No I wasn’t attracted to him but I had to communicate that in a neutral polite way. It was a big achievement for me. I think I’ve managed it, he still says hello but last time I saw him he didn’t try to prolong the conversation.

I do appreciate your identifying with my experience nonightowl but I didn’t appreciate that this went off topic with other posters.
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Default Nov 29, 2021 at 03:09 AM
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Yes I definitely felt pressure to be nice, especially with it being my job. No I wasn’t attracted to him but I had to communicate that in a neutral polite way. It was a big achievement for me. I think I’ve managed it, he still says hello but last time I saw him he didn’t try to prolong the conversation.

I do appreciate your identifying with my experience nonightowl but I didn’t appreciate that this went off topic with other posters.
Hey @Discombobulated I am sorry if you were referring to me going off topic....

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Hey @Discombobulated I am sorry if you were referring to me going off topic....
Nah, she was referring to me Sorry. We had to clear few things up. We're done.
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Hey @Discombobulated I am sorry if you were referring to me going off topic....
@sarahsweets and @BigBubba - or maybe she was referring to me, as I tend to be kind of verbose and go all social-sciency on people. I had this whole gender-role thingy laid out (or at least one of my alters did). I can go once in a while.
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Default Nov 29, 2021 at 08:29 AM
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Nothing personal to any of you but wanted to keep my thread on topic that’s all, it had veered off. I’m happy with the good advice I got which helped me handle a situation I felt uncertain of. Thanks!
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@Discombobulated - I couldn't message you, so I wanted to wish you a Happy New Year somewhere on here. I hope you feel better, and I hope you are doing okay.

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@Discombobulated - I couldn't message you, so I wanted to wish you a Happy New Year somewhere on here. I hope you feel better, and I hope you are doing okay.

Thanks SprinkL3, happy New Year to you too!
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