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Whenever my significant other and I argue I Sabotage!
I hid his credit card before he went out. I ripped his passport before be went away. I stamped on his sunglasses after an argument. I broken his phone charger the night before a work meeting. I know this is really wrong. He doesn't know any of it was me. Whenever we argue I just want to get back at him and I ruin his things or his plans. I don't want to to be like this. Please help |
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jan 2014
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It's really good that you recognize this behavior is wrong and want to change. In my area, there are some groups that run anger management classes. It may be something to look into. There's also a book called the DBT Skills Workbook for Anger that could help.
Do you see a therapist? It would be worth setting up an appointment if you aren't already seeing someone. |
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Member Since Oct 2017
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__________________ Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch. Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live. This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak. In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living. Like love, it's how we know we're alive. And life goes on. That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries |
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I'm not sure if he's so significiant. It sounds more like you really hate him. Just an opinion though.
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