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#21
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She might not know you have a problem with it as you seem to be available and willing to participate. |
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#22
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If it were completely up to you, roughly how often, and for roughly how many hours, would you want to speak with her by phone each week? Note that zero is an acceptable answer if that is what you want. |
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I guess my confusion lies in the fact That you are looking for her to play you ? Like I’m not understanding in the whole gaining sympathy thing or job advancement. If you are uncomfortable and the very first time You wondered if you were being played - you should have stopped long calls, texts, I may have missed it but do you currently work with her? Or was it in the past ? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk __________________ "I carried a watermelon?" President of the no F's given society. |
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#25
You can stop this situation from continuing by being very busy when she calls during business hours and answering the work-related question and saying "sorry I have a meeting" and by not answering calls after business hours and only returning the call if the message left indicates it is a dire work-related reason. Boundaries are needed here.
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