Bad Blood

Buffy01 · May 17, 2022 at 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by DazedandConfused254

Thanks for your reply Buffy. I think people who are flakey aren’t mature or emotionally intelligent thus this person probably marks those boxes. Some people have told me too that she is being manipulative by treating me this way so my gut instincts were right.

Your welcome. She probably is.

UnawareBS · Jun 17, 2022 at 09:55 PM

Oh God, yeah, the decline isn't your friend's responsibility. Your declined opinion has been in process. Clearly you are in great shape.

You feel right and confident for a great reason so good luck!

UnawareBS · Jun 20, 2022 at 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by mote.of.soul

It's something to be mentally prepared for and may pay to make a decision in advance about what you'll do if it happens. Otherwise you might wind up on the merry-go-round of recrimination and reconciliation for too long unnecessarily. It's like a self inflicted pain that only you can feel. Part of the human condition obviously but doesn't need to happen. So I guess I'm talking about setting a boundary in place. Thank you. All the best.

I think this is especially pertinent. I have found myself not ready for what turned out to be underfunded effort to rekindle a relationship by blowing the person off and giving them a dose of "FY" when really I spent time years later wondering what could have been...but also you might consider not letting a person back in who is only going to re-offend.

Hope things work out for you.

UnawareBS · Jun 22, 2022 at 01:52 AM

Oh you'll be back with her in no time flat as that's how it works.

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UnawareBS Member Member Since Jun 2022 Location: Hillsboro, OR Posts: 191 1 115 hugs given	Jun 17, 2022 at 09:55 PM #22 Oh God, yeah, the decline isn't your friend's responsibility. Your declined opinion has been in process. Clearly you are in great shape. You feel right and confident for a great reason so good luck! __________________ I Love You
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UnawareBS Member Member Since Jun 2022 Location: Hillsboro, OR Posts: 191 1 115 hugs given	Jun 22, 2022 at 01:52 AM #24 Oh you'll be back with her in no time flat as that's how it works. __________________ I Love You
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