[phone324234234]

So there is this girl (21/f) who use to say mean things to me (24/m) on facebook and in person. I mean it got annoying afterwards and I kinda got offended. She said things like 'YOU HAVE NO TASTE IN MUSIC, YOUR MUSIC SUCKS, YOU ARE NOT A BUSINESSMAN.' She asked me what girl I had a crush on in middle school, I told her, and she told my brother. I asked her why she was like that and she was 'idk i guess I like to annoy you.' I got pissed and I cursed her out. And she blocked me.

Years later she unblocked me and I reblocked her. But idk, one time I saw her, and I said that 'I tried to get to know this girl but it didn't work out' and she just laughed out loud.

Years later, I tried adding her as a friend on fb and messaging her saying I wanted to talk, she didn't allow me to friend her and didn't respond to me. So I assumed she didn't care and I didn't care. I was just trying to 'fix' things but it seems she wasn't ready to.

Next time I saw her, We didn't talk, but she did sit at the same table as me with other friends we have in common. She tried talking to my brother and sister in law, I mean she seemed to get along with them. She later wanted to take a group picture and I sat at another table, I didn't want to be in her picture. I think alter she looked at me and looked upset?

The next day, when she was about to sit at a table, I saw there too and she didn't sit, she moved to another table. I mean I enjoyed myself, I didn't care about her or give her attention. But I did notice towards the end she looked at me, glanced and looked upset.

I mean I just am wondering what she wants me to do? Not saying I will nor do I say I care, I am just wondering why she is behaving like this? Does she just hate my guts?

I mean for the most part people like me, I'm a respectable person in society and I think I'm doing great things. Just curious about why she is like this because she seems like a horrible horrbile person. I feel like I did the right thing ignoring her ***.

[AliceKate]

Ignoring her sounds like the way to go. You don't owe her anything whatsoever.

[divine1966]

It’s a waste of time figuring out why people do what they do or what they are thinking and why they look upset. It’s all a pointless guessing game. Neither we nor you can analyze or diagnose people we don’t know well.

Ignore her and move in with your life surrounding yourself with friends who behave better.

[EagleTears]

I think this person is a total waste of time... even if she liked you... this is not how you show someone that you like them by verbally abusing you.. Shes just being a bully... a hateful one that is... Stop trying to fix things up when you didn't even do anything wrong, and start living your life.. Shes a terrible person and her giving you the "upset" look is just nothing but her trying to manipulate you.

[Bill3]

What sort of interest do you have in her?

If you are curious about her, and maybe would like to better understand what makes her tick, then ask her to join you for coffee or ice cream.

If you have no interest in her, then behave accordingly, and stop trying to discern what degree of interest she has in you.

[phone324234234]

Originally Posted by EagleTears

I think this person is a total waste of time... even if she liked you... this is not how you show someone that you like them by verbally abusing you.. Shes just being a bully... a hateful one that is... Stop trying to fix things up when you didn't even do anything wrong, and start living your life.. Shes a terrible person and her giving you the "upset" look is just nothing but her trying to manipulate you.

I never apologized or anything. How is her giving me an 'upset' look trying to manipulate me? I don't think I'm being manipulated, i'm ignoring her, minding my own business. How is that being manipulated? She acted mad when I was ignoring her. When I was ignoring her, she moved her seat.

[phone324234234]

Originally Posted by Bill3

What sort of interest do you have in her?

If you are curious about her, and maybe would like to better understand what makes her tick, then ask her to join you for coffee or ice cream.

If you have no interest in her, then behave accordingly, and stop trying to discern what degree of interest she has in you.

i'm just wondering what she thinks of me thats all.

[eskielover]

Why do you care? You don't like being treated that way, that is all that should matter to you & not spend any time around her where communication is necessary. Sometimes people take a dislike of us for whatever reason their mind has decided as a reason....something we will never really know why. Best to just leave people like that alone & surround yourself with people you get along with