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Default Sep 26, 2022 at 11:50 PM
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So yesterday on askfm I get messenges askfm which is an anonymous website someone says they owe me $100 I'm thinking it's a friend I meet them at the park it's my stalker Jack. Well anyway I answered some more questions today that were asked yesterday. A person asked me to ask them a question I asked them how they feel about me. They said they liked me but there couldn't be a relationship and I think I know why I am not sure if it's jack that said this stuff. Then I got a request for just a FWB relationship a friends with benefit situation. I am upset I tell my sister what happens she blames me for all of it says that what I write is cringe and that I have no street smarts she then says she has no sympathy for me. I say that she's dead to me basically a whole fight with my family all because of my psycho stalker I am paranoid and have been anxious ever since my encounter with my stalker. I have deactivated my askfm account because hearing that people just want to **** me and not date me etc is upsetting and makes me very sad and depressed. I'd rather be ignored by the male population then just be the equivalent of a cum rag for a man. I just want to crawl in a hole right now my mind is also scared that could of even been my crush that said that but why would would he it would look bad on him... I'm not in the right mind and because it could be anyone I'm placing the blame on everyone and I can't trust no one. At this point I think about some of the stuff I say on social media and maybe that's a bit of why I am still single. I just don't think before I speak but if there's anything I wish I could delete my whole account on askfm I just deactivated it. I also deactivated my Facebook and I am considering putting my Instagram on private.
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Default Sep 27, 2022 at 03:10 PM
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Who is stalker Jack?
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Default Sep 27, 2022 at 07:03 PM
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People always post junk on the internet. I don’t know if it’s necessarily a stalker. Someone saying they owe you money might follow up with “what’s your bank account, I’ll transfer it to you”. Might be a scammer.

I know some people are totally fascinated with social media but I think it’s a waste of time. You can have friends and hobbies and social life and romance and be successful and happy and never have account on any of those sites.

You also need to understand how this things works. I had Instagram account for like a hot minute that I deactivated because: I created it so I could see posts of new art by a specific artist. I never made a single post or comment, had no picture or any identifying info on my profile, nothing. And yet some very old acquittance from 40 years ago found me on there. How??? One time I was contacted by a high school boyfriend. Again there is NOTHING identifying. So that was the end of it for me.

Nothing is private. If you want private life, get off social media and get busy with people in real life.

Don’t post questionable stuff. It always comes back to you. It’s looking for trouble
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Default Sep 30, 2022 at 12:14 AM
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I don't post questionable stuff you don't even know me -_-
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Default Sep 30, 2022 at 12:15 AM
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Who is stalker Jack?
Well I thought it could of been jack but turns out it sounds more like someone I may have known who knows. Either way it's questionable and just gross.
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Default Sep 30, 2022 at 05:41 PM
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I don't post questionable stuff you don't even know me -_-
No I don’t know you. Why would I know you on anonymous forum?

You said you don’t think before you post. Don’t know what stuff you post. But I am just going by what you said. Be careful what you post
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How are you being blamed?

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I feel like I am missing something

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