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Default Feb 05, 2023 at 04:25 PM
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I completely understand how you are feeling. Hang in there. “in every pot hole there is hope” - Steve Martin Mixed Nuts
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Thank you for your understanding!!
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@divine1966 - Yes, I realize what I've done and now I need to nip it in the bud. I will tell him that I am not changing my mind about a divorce, and that I won't be getting together with him. He now is writing to me, offering to hang out. I see it is a very slippery slope, which is why I need to nip this now.

@willowtigger - thank you for your sweet, kind words!
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Have Hope is a amazing lady
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In my state, lying on a resume is not a criminal offense. But it can get you fired, if they find out and if you sign anything that says everything you've stated and submitted is in truth.

I don't live an expensive lifestyle. I live by myself, as I should at the age of 52, I support myself fully and I am not an extravagant spender. These days, I've been staying home instead of going out and spending money. Where do you get that I live an expensive lifestyle? Maybe when I lived with my husband and when we went out to eat every night, but not when I am single.
I hear you have hope about the resume. Good for you for standing your ground.

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So dont stand next to him when your talking to him in case he turns round too fast
Let try to be friendly with Have Hope who is going through a difficult time right now.

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Let try to be friendly with Have Hope who is going through a difficult time right now.
I was talking about Have Hope's ex husband. Not Have Hope herself
 
 
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Default Feb 06, 2023 at 03:23 PM
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Now I have a debt collector after me for an $1,000+ ER visit cost. Great. Everything is just spectacular.

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Now I have a debt collector after me for an $1,000+ ER visit cost. Great. Everything is just spectacular.
Would it be allowed if anyone who could here, helped get the money together for you?

can't remember whether thats allowed or not, wish i didnt have a screwy memory
 
 
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whats £20 in $ ? i could maybe give that ?
 
 
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whats £20 in $ ? i could maybe give that ?
Very sweet of you, but I can’t do that. It’s a pride thing. I will figure it out. I may go to one of those debt consolidation companies. I may have to.

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Very sweet of you, but I can’t do that. It’s a pride thing. I will figure it out. I may go to one of those debt consolidation companies. I may have to.
when do you have to pay it?

will they hurt our favouritest Hope if she isnt able to pay?
 
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when do you have to pay it?

will they hurt our favouritest Hope if she isnt able to pay?
I have to call them and tell them I can’t pay now.

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Default Feb 06, 2023 at 03:57 PM
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The way it works with medical bills you could always negotiate with hospitals or clinics to pay whatever you can. Send 10 bucks every month. As long as you keep paying they can’t do anything. But I am not sure what happens if it went to collectors.

Could you borrow from your mom? Sister? That’s where I would go first. But it’s a good idea to call and say you will pay but not the whole amount right away. Or use your bank loan?
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The way it works with medical bills you could always negotiate with hospitals or clinics to pay whatever you can. Send 10 bucks every month. As long as you keep paying they can’t do anything. But I am not sure what happens if it went to collectors.

Could you borrow from your mom? Sister? That’s where I would go first. But it’s a good idea to call and say you will pay but not the whole amount right away. Or use your bank loan?
i must miss understand the system over there, i thought it was a "you owe us this money you have to pay it NOW!!!!" thing ?
 
 
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Default Feb 06, 2023 at 04:06 PM
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I can pay a little at a time. I will not borrow the money or take it out of my loan. I will call them first and see what they say.

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i must miss understand the system over there, i thought it was a "you owe us this money you have to pay it NOW!!!!" thing ?
No. When you get a bill, you call and talk to the hospital. You can do a payment plan. Or you can send what you can when they bill you, when the remaining balance comes, you again pay what you can. There is no system “over here” or over there or anywhere that demands immediate payments of a full amount without even considering payment plans. Now if you don’t pay your bills and it goes on collection, then I don’t know how it works. It’s a different situation. Typically it takes a long time of not paying for it to end up with debt collectors.

Our health care is crazy as we don’t have national health care. People have health insurance typically through their employer. It’s not affordable without insurance
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I can pay a little at a time. I will not borrow the money or take it out of my loan. I will call them first and see what they say.
Good plan. You’d want to take of it so it doesn’t effect your credit. They will likely give you some options
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