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Poohbah
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#21
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Hopefully she’ll come to her senses soon. The mooch will push her to fsr one day, I’m sure of that. |
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There have been really hurtful comments different people have made to me over the years that were so stinging they really got under my skin. Had I been an angel, those insults wouldn’t have been hurled at me. I was so in shock because I felt I didn’t deserve those comments, thought it was really out there and over the top of why those people even thought to say them to me. I must have deserved it, having done something to them I wasn’t aware of, or having put out some vibe, showed some behavior, said some comments that showed me to be a bad person to them. Anyway, I don’t want to hijack your thread. It’s not about me. I hope you work out this struggle with your friends. I think you will have a fight with your friend if you try to convince her to not be friends with the other one you don’t care for. All you can do is just don’t go out with the both of them together. Just see the friend you like by yourselves. You may lose the friend you do like. She may choose the other friend over you. __________________ "And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T |
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Poohbah
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I’m done with the moocher. The moocher lnows that although I didn’t tell her I didn’t want to be friends anymore, I know she decided to never talk to me again after I hurt her feelings with my honesty. She lied when she said she wasn’t upset. Whatever though. She’s a lost cause. I’ll end any new friendship with anyine who us like that immediately. I’ll also call them out on their rude behavior immediately, lol. People like that don’t deserve any of my kindness or my respect. Hopefully my people pleaser friend will come to her senses soon on her own. |
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