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Apr 06, 2023 at 05:32 AM
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I got pretty upset yesterday when I was going thru some old paperwork and found a file with nothing but negative information on me which she planned to try and use against me in a court of law. It would not have made any difference on the outcome. There was no smoking gun. No there there. What upset me the most was some of my personal medical records.
Psychological reports. She knew I was ill. She knew the truth behind the reports yet was going to use that information against me. I find that to be the ultimate betrayal. I know everyone has to look out for their own interests but instead of trying to help me she tried to destroy me. I tried talking to her about this and she just replied that she was just doing what her lawyer told her to do. Get as much " dirt" on me as possible. I keep thinking the past is dead , but it's not. It stays in our head , and sometimes never goes away. I've also been used basically my whole life. It's so very complicated. I went back to her because I was lonely , but on the verge of a psychological breakthrough . Instead of moving forward I went backwards. If there's no communication , there's nothing. There can also never be trust . __________________ Trying to Live in the Moment |
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Apr 06, 2023 at 06:02 AM
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If someone is toxic they try to bait you to react so they can blame you. The key is to not react and keep working on staying calm in the moment.
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Apr 14, 2023 at 04:20 PM
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Hey moodyblue83, you have many times mentioned about past in your posts. It looks like something really significant happened in the past that has affected your relationship. Can you share if you feel comfortable in sharing ?What had happened in the past?
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