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Mendingmysoul · Apr 13, 2023 at 04:12 PM

Yep,armorplate108, I think I need to come out of my comfort zone which is non confrontational freeze mode.I have always had this wishful thinking that people on their own should realize their mistakes and correct themselves ( because I am like that .Always selfreflect and correct myself).I need to understand I should not expect everyone to be mannerful.

Mendingmysoul · Apr 13, 2023 at 04:51 PM

It was really interesting when I shared this with a very close friend, she said they are taking you for a coward.They are challenging you by being total jerks and ignoring you standing in the lawn.And she also mentioned that others may start the same.like some of the posters mentioned it may not become a path for other residents, as they donot save anytime by taking this shortcut.Luckily I have to deal with only one family.

Samicat · Apr 14, 2023 at 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Mendingmysoul

Samicat,the county is not going to change the layout of the curb,where one can officially walk on.The curb covers all the houses in their fronts and the people that I am talking about here have a curb in front of their house also.They can come out of their house,use their front curb and eventually reach in front of my house,if they stroll on the curb,except it takes a little longer.Yep,seemingly solutions are failing right now and I appreciate you giving another perspective, but donot you think when ignored or pacified the smaller issues can compound into the bigger problems the world is facing now.Ignoring people that are disrespecting your personal space may lead to breaking and entering or then may lead to trying to rob something valuable or may lead to something more dangerous. It is always wise to try to solve a problem in the budding stage.Imagine how peaceful the world would be when everyone respects others rights,solves their own problems in a reasonable manner.A person is a unit of a family,Many families make a society, Many societies together make a country,and many countries together make this world.The bigger problems the world is facing today,can start with lack of selfdiscipline in a single person.We tend to ignore problems until they blowup in the face of humanity.Plenty of examples throughout the history of humanity.

So by letting them walk across your grass, next they will be breaking into your home?

Sorry I said anything. I am out. Good luck with it.

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Mendingmysoul Grand Member Member Since Aug 2019 Location: Here Posts: 907 4 807 hugs given	Apr 13, 2023 at 04:12 PM #21 Yep,armorplate108, I think I need to come out of my comfort zone which is non confrontational freeze mode.I have always had this wishful thinking that people on their own should realize their mistakes and correct themselves ( because I am like that .Always selfreflect and correct myself).I need to understand I should not expect everyone to be mannerful.
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