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Default Jul 12, 2023 at 11:31 PM
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Getting attracted to a girl for no reason!! I haven't got married yet and I did attempt to get married but I just could not settle with that girl at all. That girl was extremely Greedy. Although her background was from a village I could just feel she had desires of all types not just physical, but emotional, materialistic as well, more desires than even of a regular urban girl. Not just that, she was involved in relationships with many boys to fulfill those desires. She has made me feel absolutely low because of the fact I was no way near to the fulfilment of those huge amount of desires. Later on I just broke up with her and now its absolutely horrific that she keeps on coming into mind as some sort of nightmares. I am absolutely sick of that girl and I cant believe my luck.She is the worst girlfriend I could have ever had. She makes me feel like an idiot day and night and its hard to come to terms with the fact that I even got into relationship with her. Are all Girls like that or there are simple girls too? Tell me the way to get over her and lead a normal life!!
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Getting attracted to a girl for no reason!! I haven't got married yet and I did attempt to get married but I just could not settle with that girl at all. That girl was extremely Greedy. Although her background was from a village I could just feel she had desires of all types not just physical, but emotional, materialistic as well, more desires than even of a regular urban girl. Not just that, she was involved in relationships with many boys to fulfill those desires. She has made me feel absolutely low because of the fact I was no way near to the fulfilment of those huge amount of desires. Later on I just broke up with her and now its absolutely horrific that she keeps on coming into mind as some sort of nightmares. I am absolutely sick of that girl and I cant believe my luck.She is the worst girlfriend I could have ever had. She makes me feel like an idiot day and night and its hard to come to terms with the fact that I even got into relationship with her. Are all Girls like that or there are simple girls too? Tell me the way to get over her and lead a normal life!!
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Hey hey, it’s alright. You don’t need to feel low that you can’t fulfil her desires. You don’t have to.
The guy I was involved with plagues my mind too. Although it is usually assumed that a person of her background would be simple, sometimes they are also not.
I’m sure you’ll find a girl you like.
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One thought is get to know the girl & her values before ever making tgem your "girlfriend".

There are all kinds of girls & guys whether from urban or country. That is why it is important to get to know them before ever letting them into that place in your life.

I can pretty much know someone's values just by having conversations with them before I ever decide what kind of friend they might be

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This thread was posted a year ago and the OP never even followed through.

What is it with resurrecting threads that are years and even decades ago?
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This thread was posted a year ago and the OP never even followed through.

What is it with resurrecting threads that are years and even decades ago?
No idea.....I wonder also. Just responded because of the reply yesterday. They get buried so far down in my history I never see them unless someone else resurrects them

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