I feel lonely and homeless

father left me from my 2 years old. mother got married again and again. when i became a mother, my mother began to fight for my daughter. my mother told my daughter that i didn't love my daughter, never. she indeed is my daughter's mother. she keep lying for ten years behind me. now my daughter distrust me. i feel i have no home, no family, nobody. if one's parents don't love oneself, then who can love you? no one. i love and respect my mother deeply. and i ever save my mother's life several years agao. but these things didn't earn the same love from her. actually she hate me. i don't know why. don't know why.

I am so very, very sorry that you are in the situation you described. It is heartbreaking and must be so difficult for you.

It may be that your mother is suffering from a mental illness. Mental illness often results from abnormal changes in the brain.

My father was similar to your mother in the way he treated me. Later I realized that he probably had brain illness that caused his crazy actions.

I hope you will find these Forums to be a kind of home for you. There are many kind-hearted and understanding people here who will be like a family to you.

I wish I knew how to cure your mother, but I was unable to cure my father. He is gone now.

We are only now slowly realizing how the brain can become ill and affect people's actions. I am so sorry your mother doesn't appreciate you and that she has harmed your relationship with your daughter.

Hopefully when your daughter gets older, she will see the truth and love you as she should.

Your mother is probably in need of medical treatment for mental illness, but sometimes people who are mentally ill do not believe they are sick and sadly they can make other people suffer. Wish I knew how to help you.

I’m also very sorry for your situation. You must feel so alone and lost.
At first sight I thought bad of your mum. I thought “How evil mum” after that I read Yaowen’s reply and helped me to see her in a different perspective.
Keep trying with your daughter, have patience with her, she will realise of the truth.
It’s a very hard situation for you and she must be confused.

I welcome you to the forums. Feel free to expose your struggles, your doubts and people here will listen to you and hopefully they will provide some kind of insight. But, I’m sure we will try to support.

Thank you very much! Your reply give me a lot of power and warmth.

Thank you for your kindness and encouragement.