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Legendary Wise Elder
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My starting over is just taking care of my life the way I want it to run & I am not wanting anyone else involved to complicate it. Doing well for 16 years & I have 10+ acres of land I own & am taking care of now. Sometimes life is better with no one else involved at a close level but I had to sort issues out that all those years caused & when I did, being in control of my own life won __________________ Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this. Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018 |
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__________________ Bipolar I w/psychotic features Last inpatient stay in 2018 Geodon 40 mg Seroquel 75 mg Lybalvi 5 mg as a PRN Gabapentin 1200 mg, Vitamin B-complex (against extrapyramidal side effects) Long term side effects from medications some of them discontinued: - hypothyroidism - obesity Suspected narcolepsy Treated with Ritalin 5mg |
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Location: United Kingdom
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Yeah you definitely have a point there. I think if we had just separated completely and not this weird situation that is going on I would feel differently. Hell,at this point a straight answer would be nice... She seems to be less deactivated now but I wonder whether that's just her moving on at this point. We are going on holiday with friends this week so when i get back i think it's time to put stuff in place to separate. It's not fair that she is getting everything she wants (split + me still being around as a "friend") while i just get hurt everyday. Thank you for your reply! |
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eskielover, Tart Cherry Jam
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Yeah, i am getting to the point now where i am ready to walk. I have given myself a timeline that i will be sticking to. After that i will be cutting all contact and one of us will have to move out and seeing as she initiated all of this i think it's only fair that it's her. Thank you for your reply! |
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#25
You financially supporting her is the reason she keeps you in the picture and isn’t in a rush. She doesn’t want to be with you in a romantic sense and has no interest in commitment yet accepts your money. Stop dragging it. Don’t go on holidays with her. End this charade
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__________________ Bipolar I w/psychotic features Last inpatient stay in 2018 Geodon 40 mg Seroquel 75 mg Lybalvi 5 mg as a PRN Gabapentin 1200 mg, Vitamin B-complex (against extrapyramidal side effects) Long term side effects from medications some of them discontinued: - hypothyroidism - obesity Suspected narcolepsy Treated with Ritalin 5mg |
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