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Location: In the southern United States
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I am absolutely so angry, and this is the state I have been trying to stay out of
and have for almost 18 years. Another one of my, white trash, deadbeat friends has pushed me to the edge. I absolutely cannot let him get away with this and I am not friggin' going to. I sit at my home with Stage 4 cancer waiting to expire as my Oncologist so eloquently puts it. This guy, who I have known since grade school thinks he can just run all over the top of me. He shows up about 8 months ago at my house, I am not sure how he got here, maybe he was miracled, here. Otherwise he never calls or comes by, even though he lives less than 15 minutes away. He had his iPhone turned off for not being able to pay the bill for three months and asked for $2,200/USD to catch the bill up so it would be reactivated. Swore he would get it back to me as soon as possible. Then another month later, the miraculous happens again! He shows up, and has his daughter staying with him. The dog was sick and needed surgery, is what he told me, he is in need and I am an animal lover, So the procedure was $1,000/USD and he is like I will call you and set up up a payment plan, you know I am good for it. I tried to call him to ask about the money, that is a pittance to me but the principle is a big thing. He puts his girlfriend on the phone, who is a big lush, and would not even talk to me. He had worked for the United States Postal Service for ever 20 years. He got fired for cause because he was not showing up for work. This is just some of the stuff I have done for this guy. USPS was going to fire him before and I used my influence as section chief at the national lab at the last job I had overseeing medical research. Able to help him preserve his job, this time, I am sick and in home hospice so there was nothing I could do. He goes to work at some new Amazon facilities they built here, making half of what he did. This is bad on me, but he wanted to join the Navy when we were younger but did not meet the I.Q, requirements for entry, I did the kind of thing I would normally never do, I took the ASVAB entry test battery for him and scored in the top 1%. So, they took him of course at that point. I should not have done that, it was wrong and but thought he was my friend. His second tour of the Navy, he crashed a missile cruiser, that was going through the Panama Canal, got the Captain fired and got the boot. Again I stepped in, my sister was working for a boating manufacturer plant/facility and the guy that was the general manager had retired from the Coast Guard as a cutter Captain. I know his guy well, as I got to know him once I got back from the army. I asked him, and he helped him to enter the Coast Guard for one final tour. His father is now 84 years of age, he made off with over $200,130/USD because his dad had him on the account. He has rheumatoid arthritis, and the type of prostate cancer they are sure has spread but the PET imagery is just not good enough to pick it up where it may be. It's called Bioremedial Staging. So he is trying to live off of his social security check, barely makes it, so I went to my bank and arranged for $350/USD per month to be deposited into his account when his Social Security is, to help the old man get by. I get out when I am sick, and take him to doctors appointments, because this moron is too busy running the roads to do it. Now, he will not even talk to me on the phone? When we were in high school I had much pent up rage because of what had happened to me as a kid. People used to call this guy Gorilla Grodd minus the genius factor. Well when I got hold of them they didn't fare too well, only trouble I ever got in during school. Now he won't even have the decency, or the courage to talk to me on a phone? His lush of a girlfriend, is such a brainiac, she got drunk and took off with her German Shepard in the back of a Dodge truck. She got on the interstate, the poor dog blew out the back, and was killed, and she hit two other vehicles. I paid to have that fixed, as it was his only way to get to work. I am getting very angry with this individual, and when I was younger this would not even be a post, he would be running from me. This is absolutely horrible to have someone you thought was your friend take such blatant advantage of you. I will still help his father, it is not his fault, other than maybe he did not deal with him better when he was younger, Why? oh Why? If my mum were still alive and I did anything like this at 53 she would still wallop me upside the head. |
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