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Jun 18, 2024 at 06:06 PM
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Does anyone have any advice, I’ve been on and off with my boyfriend whilst struggling with addiction, he cheated on me many times which initially broke us up but now that we’re talking again I can’t stop lying to him about substance use and speaking to other men, today he came back home to me high while I was trying to get clean and ended up getting my family to take me home. I don’t know what to do to fix it
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Jun 18, 2024 at 08:01 PM
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@Jenny333 welcome to MSF. I am sorry you have challenges with addiction and your boyfriend.
I do not know what is best for you but if your family is wiling to help you get clean that might be a safe place to deal with your habit. Dealing with an on again off again relationship and trying to deal with addiction may be too much to handle all at once. Hope yoiu find a way that works for you. CANDC [If you want me to see your reply to this post please include @CANDC in your message - not in requoting my message] __________________ Super Moderator Community Support Team "Things Take Time" |
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Jun 20, 2024 at 09:14 AM
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Neither of you seems ready for a relationship.
Work on yourself first, THEN decide if this guy is what you want. |
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Jun 20, 2024 at 08:59 PM
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It sounds like your boyfriend is a negative influence on you. Good luck! __________________ Major Depressive Disorder; Sleep Apnea; possibly on the spectrum Nuvigil 50mg; Effexor 37.5mg Wellbutrin 150mg; meds for blood pressure & cholesterol |
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Jun 22, 2024 at 02:19 PM
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I do not think that this guy and you belong living together at this time. I agree with the poster above who suggests that you stay with your family till you get further in your recovery.
I'm sorry you are in such a non-supportive relationship. Maybe that's a product of your substance addiction. After getting clean and sober for a while, you might decide that this is not a man you want to invest more in. |
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