My ex came to the house

I have no idea what to expect these days.

She could come at me, guns blazing, expecting everything under the sun when we go to court, and slander me in the process.

Or, the other extreme, she could be so scared of being exposed in court that she may drop pursuing things further.

She hasn’t finished anything she’s started since 2010. Not one single thing. She might lack the focus to see this through.

Anything between those extremes is possible.

We don't know. Uncharted territory. That is why we have a good lawyer & start building our walls & setting in place our boundaries that we base our own going forward in life on.

Yeah Eskie, you know what it’s like.

And I don’t know what’s true or what part of her thinking is dominant anymore.

She really did consume wine steadily daily for years.

That HAD to affect her thinking, perhaps the ability to focus and follow through.

But it’s also the alternate angry, powerful, helpless, motherly, party girl traits that are displayed.

So…. No clue what’s ahead.

I was puttering and cleaning the house today and found a ton of stuff.

I found a ton of prescription medications previously. Medications her doctors referenced in stuff she provided to the court to show she was unable to work. Years of them, filled and unused.

I found years of receipts and cheque books full of daycare payments, though she claimed in court the kids were home with her full time.

I found pay stubs from an accounting firm she worked at, and official transcript requests because they offered to apprentice her as an accountant.

When we separated I offered support. She declined it because she was certain she could take more.

This sucks.

But, my house is clean, comfortable and quiet, I’m done all my side contracts for now. I have multiple requests for my services in Jan and February and things are good.