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Trig Aug 30, 2024 at 07:03 AM
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I am currently 6 weeks pregnant with my third child. I am divorced from my first child’s father, have a failed toxic relationship with my second child’s father, and am now “knocked up” by my friend of 12 years, who met me for coffee or communicated via email and phone convos over the years, but our paths didn’t really intersect until now. I’m 6 months free of my toxic bond; feeling like the world’s my oyster, and basically we hooked up. He doesn’t have any interest in being a father. I cannot bear to be a single mom of 3 children.
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I’m going to see how it’s doing on a scan next week. Not sure what the hell is the right decision to make here. I feel like my life’s been a steady stream of one crappy decision after another, although I do count my blessings.

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oh goodness i can't imagine how much that screws with emotions. i myself would think of adoption possibly, if you can't really can't or don't have a kid. i know that there are alot of couples and even some singles that would love to be parents
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I would definitely choose adoption. I know so many loving parents that want children & aren't able to have get pregnant.

Yes, this is the reason just "hooking up" is not a good idea because pregancy easily is the result.

We have a REAL woman's care group in our town who help with adoption when necessary

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