as a virgin male, non virgin girls seem so disgusting to me

Rose76 · Nov 09, 2024 at 03:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam

I see. Then I wonder what the original poster wants to do to incentivize such involvement on the part of a potential w oman, given all the negative consequences in Egypt he has described even for himself, and it is a fair assumption that the negative consequences would be even worse for women.

I think it's fair to guess that the O.P. has not thought through all the implications of his plan. You raise a good point, Cherry. He's looking for what he is most unlikely to find, due to the incentivization issue. That's another tip-off that his thinking, on this subject, is a bit juvenile.

Discombobulated · Nov 09, 2024 at 06:11 AM

You’ve had some excellent replies here, if you’re still reading this. Has any of it made sense?

I can only add, do you genuinely have an issue with empathy? Do you have an ability to put yourself in another’s shoes? Can you imagine how it feels to be another person?

Because imagining how a woman may view this situation is the key to understanding and changing your perspective.

How do you think a woman may feel to be judged because of her relationship history? How might you feel if someone told you that you were carrying dna from past partners? Would you accept that judgement as valid? Or would you question it?

Lastly, would you find a person who viewed your gender as contaminated by their sexual history an attractive person?

Tart Cherry Jam · Nov 09, 2024 at 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by unaluna

It's incel-type literature. They are even saying that, because of this so-called stored DNA, your children could descend from this storage spot, which they say is in the FUPA, also that is how to "tell" if a woman has had many partners, as the semen is stored there, hence the puffiness. Not that there is the fatty mound of venus coving the pubic bone.

How can you have so much information available at your literal fingertips, yet not have the agency to and strength to discern lies? That is what it means to be a man.

Incel, FUPA...

I have just learned new terms.

Rose76 · Nov 09, 2024 at 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam

Incel, FUPA...

I have just learned new terms.

Me too. 😁 Studied anatomy, but never heard of FUPA. Glad to have that hole in my knowledge base plugged. Don't want to walk around ignorant.

Tart Cherry Jam · Nov 11, 2024 at 10:47 PM

I think we might have scared OP off.

MuddyBoots · Nov 12, 2024 at 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam

I think we might have scared OP off.

I disgust him lol

unaluna · Nov 12, 2024 at 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by MuddyBoots

I disgust him lol

Oh im afraid we all do!

Discombobulated · Nov 13, 2024 at 02:54 AM

I might meet the OPs approval as I only had one partner my whole life who is also the father of my adult child.

that was just chance however, and in no way something I strove to do.

Essentially this thread seems to be about ownership of women. I’m not sure anything we can say would make any difference in the face of such beliefs.

seesaw · Nov 14, 2024 at 12:58 PM

I just want to comment how impressed I am with my fellow members here who have responded to the OP's question, which was rooted in a misogynistic world view, with kindness and education while challenging the logic.

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