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Poohbah
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I can’t say much unfortunately. I’’m a caregiver. Today a client of mine yelled at me because she thought that I was judging her.
She told me to stop judging her & to get out. So I left & called a manager. Unfortunately this manager is also her friend & she made excuses for her & said that since she is mentally disabled that I need to be more careful around her. Wth? I mentioned that whe was being abusive & that upset her & she said that it’s not abuse & that now she might put me with another client. I got along with her fine for the last 3-4 months, so this is ridiculous. I had to clock out early & I lost over $100 in pay today. I’m pissed! She said to come back tomorrow. I came back in & got my stuff. My client said nothing. I got no apology at all. She has had a meltdown before, but we resolved things & she didn’t kick me out or yell at me that one time. Should I say anything to her or not? She has accused me or arguing or not wanting to argue with me when I tried to set boundaries & communicate with her about things in the past. Now I’m afraid to say anything to her as I could accidentally trigger her again. I told her to not yell at me & that I wasn’t judging her. She didn’t say anything after that. We got along fine most if the time. I really need this job. I regret calling the supervisor. Maybe now she’ll be more pissed at me for ‘telling’ on her, idk. What should I do? My husband thinks that I shouldn’t have called my supervisor & that I shouldn’t say anything to my client & pretend that nothing happened. Last edited by jesyka; Today at 12:58 AM.. |
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