[lostgirl]

I just got out of a year and a half relationship, and i bounced back pretty quickley because it wasnt a healthy relationship. On the other hand, this is going to sound pretty funny, on the other hand i have been talking to and having phone sex with a friend of mine who ive known for four years online. Its all in good fun, but it still feels dangerous and like i shouldnt be doing it, but, i dont have a good reason. What should I do, i dont want to step into a dangerous situation, if i havent already. Help!

[Fallingangel]

Nothing wrong with it. I would advise you not to keep this activity too long with any person. I might become an habit and old habits dies hard.
Good luck.

[adaml]

The best advice is that is the advice that comes from within.
If something feels wrong than chances are it is, you deem what you feel is appropriate and acceptable based on your morals etc.
Bottom line, listen to that little voice inside your head. It is their for a reason and to help.
Good luck,
Adam

[Steph]

Phone sex!
Of course you're doing the wrong thing. You need to date, get married, then start having sex with someone (not over the phone). I'm telling you, you're going to regret it. Just follow you're conscience.

[curlyq]

Personally, I've never tried it. Sometimes things that seem like we should not be doing them are appealing in some ways and then sort of icky in others. I agree that your inner voice is communicating with you. I don't think it's all that bad a thing to do actually. Someone once asked me to have phone sex with him and I declined because I wasn't interested in him that way. But with someone online doesn't seem like such a good idea because you can't see the person for one thing-or can you? I don't know if you want more to happen with the relationship (if you want to call it that). Then who knows what may be lurking out there-it's scary. I wonder if anything good will come out of it. Maybe there is something to learn in it. I don't know but I noticed that in my life I can sometimes find some meaning to specific events later on.

Not to upset you but I've heard some bad stories from meeting certain people on the web. 5 women were killed by a man who lured them on the internet. That made me become extra cautious (like I'm not already-I'm usually on the verge of paranoia anyhow ).

I just want to get the point across about being very careful. I think the old fashioned way of dating is more safe. Waiting to really get to know the person is important, too, before venturing into sex. But I didn't always do it that way! Best wishes.cq

Success is the best revenge.

[Eroswings14]

I'd be more worried about my phone bill, you sound like a pretty nice girl, and not to lost I hope......Computers can be just as dagerous as phone if not more, if you can really trust your friend, then by all means go get laid.....But don't do it because I said so trust your own gut feeling, but don't set yourself up, for another break-up, or worse yet.....