Recently my circle of friends have been going through some relationship issues and for some reason they've been coming to me. *shrugs* Not that my relationship is better, because in all reality it's just as jacked. Maybe it's a trust thing, or they know I won't judge them, because some of their issues are pretty crazy. One friend is having a straight out affair on her husband, another relationship. She's even claimed that she feels she doesn't love him as much as she had before. Shocking, because those two made me sick with their yucky LOVE. Another friend is separating from her husband for the second time and filing for divorce. My sister left her husband all in one night and took everything he had of value. He still continues to send her money on a weekly bases. Although she cheated on him several times, he wants her back...........effin crazy *shakes head*. Last but not least my very BF, who I haven't been able to see, just admitted that her husband is controlling and scares her with threats and intimidation. I always had a vibe from that guy...he was isolating her from me.
Why o' why! Every relationship that I knew of with in my circle of people are all headed straight for disaster. I envy no one in these situations because their just as quaked as my husband and I. Marriage is losing it's meaning, it's purpose. Relationships seem faulty and temporary. I can't trust my own feeling about another because in a sense it all seems useless, because it'll fail anyway. *shrugs*
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