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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jul 2004
Location: Southeast Florida
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It's great that no one yet has any relationship problems for the holidays. Just wait til I get up north and see my family. If I can get online, I'll probably have enough to keep this forum humming all by myself.
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Grand Magnate
Managing Editor, PC Member Since Apr 2004
Location: Milky Way galaxy
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oh god ... sometimes I get pissed off at my mother just by LOOKING at her .... and she's going to my sister's, too. It wouldn't be a holiday in our family if my mother didn't make somebody cry at least once, and it's usually me. If I can kick the 18-y/o nephew off his fancy-pants gaming computer (comes in handy to have a dad who's a computer engineer at IBM), I'll try to get online and vent some. But I'm not leaving till the 24th! So I have ALLLLL this time to obsess about it.
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Sep 2004
Location: Virginia
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We're going to hubby's parents for Christmas...when it comes to his condition. They don't have a clue and aren't willing to make the effort. They mean well, but I don't think they'll ever understand.
I get to spend my holiday hearing, "____, how is ____ really doing?" "Do you think he's still relapsing?" Oy... __________________ “I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” ~ Maya Angelou Karma is a boomerang. Trying to read 52 books in 52 weeks. See how I'm doing |
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Member Since Jul 2003
Location: CA
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You must have missed all my posts about not being able to motivate hubby to even drag the Christmas boxes out of the shed. LOL He's no way into Christmas! I'm such a big kid about it that it really hurts me when he acts like a big poop! Yesterday, I wanted to go to a specific store to look at their ornaments and he didn't want to go there. He wanted to go somewhere else... no real reason, just because. He grumbled, fumed and "accidentally" hurt himself getting there. His passive/agressive way to punish me. When I got done shopping for what I wanted, I wanted to go out in the garden area because I could smell the Christmas trees. He didn't want to go "because his legs were hurting" from standing. SINCE WHEN????? He can walk for miles, but his legs hurt him in a store? Yeah right! He went out back with me but he found a bench and LAYED down on it while I tootled around the lines of trees whiffing in the smell and pretending I was in a forest. Then I woke up! But hey, I had my "out of this world" moment.
It's going to be like this until after the first of the year. Don't think I keep my mouth shut about it, either! If I had my "ruthers," I'd punt him into next week, but then I'd miss him. Dog turds on a stick!! Can't win for losin'! Hang in there. Somehow we'll make it through. __________________ Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. |
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