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Old Sep 18, 2008, 09:56 PM
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I'm very concerned about her right now. She messaged me while I was away in a distant, seemingly confused or hurt tone. I want to help her, but she isn't responding to my messages. Is this a sign that she hates me? Have I finally destroyed it all? Or is she just hurt? I don't want any of those statements to be true, I want her to be wonderful and thriving, she sounded fine on the phone yesterday.

I can't help it; is it someone else? Is it just me being detestable and overly emotional? I am baffled. Please, lend assistance.

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Old Sep 19, 2008, 04:54 PM
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I don't think it means that she hates you. Maybe there's just something bothering her that she doesn't know how to talk to you about or something. Try to just give her some time and see if she comes to you and lets you know the problem. Just let her know you are there for her if and when she wants to talk about it.
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Old Sep 21, 2008, 09:21 PM
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It could just be something else going on in her life that isn't anything to do with you (like work troubles etc) or maybe she was doing something else at the same time and got distracted. I think if you're worried, then next time you talk to her say something like "Hey, you sounded a bit weird in your message, is something wrong?" - but if she doesn't want to talk about it, it doesn't mean it's something you did.

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Old Sep 22, 2008, 03:17 AM
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She could be dealing with something in her family or work.

You will know shortly. Try to relax and distract yourself with something else to do till you can talk to her again.

Hope it all works out for you!

Peace and hope,
night

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Old Sep 22, 2008, 03:52 AM
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Oh my...you have really been bohered about this, huh.

Like the other posts said, it more than likely had nothing to do with you. If you can't let go of wondering though, just ask her.

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