[ZiggyPlayedGuitar]

I've been with my boyfriend for about a month now...
And I'm not so sure if I really do like him or not. Relationships have been a major struggle for me since a certain one a few years back (lots of problems)

He spends a lot of time talking to me now, and I feel like I can really connect with him. He's such a nice boy, and I do really think I like him.
Except I still feel like its an empty relationship. I think I'm too afraid for one...he can get very clingy...

I'm at a loss...I like him but I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship again. So many trust issues..

[ziggy1]

Froms one Ziggy to another.....If you aint ready for a relationship, to me
that says it all...!! He sounds like a nice young man, but clinginess bothers
me too.

I need my space big time, if I meet someone to clingy right away a red flag goes up!!!!!

You also said he's a really nice boy but you feel the relationship is empty?

I'm not saying to get rid of him right away but you might want to Con-

verse to him your issues....with politness and care. If he can't grasp

what your saying then atleast you cannot say you tried.......good

luck ziggyplayedguitar.......Relationships do have to feel some whole-

someness. If you don't have that tell him be honest maybe you 2 can still

go on a date hear and there...??? Maybe things will change....Just

remember your #1. Take care of yourself first!!!!! Please feel free to

PM me if any other ?'s come up.........



Ziggy1

[Miss.Lady]

Originally Posted by ZiggyPlayedGuitar

I've been with my boyfriend for about a month now...
And I'm not so sure if I really do like him or not. Relationships have been a major struggle for me since a certain one a few years back (lots of problems)

He spends a lot of time talking to me now, and I feel like I can really connect with him. He's such a nice boy, and I do really think I like him.
Except I still feel like its an empty relationship. I think I'm too afraid for one...he can get very clingy...

I'm at a loss...I like him but I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship again. So many trust issues..

Well i can say i have been with my boyfriend for about a yr and a half and i felt that way before we went through the stuff we did so just do what your heart says and don't do anything that will put you in any danger or will make u feel any different in a bad way about yours self and see how it works out! Good luck