[isconfuzzled]

i guess I was asking for trouble when I looked up profiles for my bf's ex.

Right.
He said, that he loved her but not the same.
The things he said to her... he says to me
On those chats the SAME things were there.
He has sex with her - sure he says the sex is better but now I'm thinking it's just the better condoms or the lack thereof. And the fact that I give him what I want.

I saw I'm JUST LIKE HER I'm like... lots of same issues, lots of same personality.

I thought he loved me...
she broke up with him by sleeping with someone else.

maybe he's ... not... what I thought

hellpppp what do you guys things

[meander]

Hey,

I'd try not to worry so much about it... people tend to be attracted to a similar type of person, but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Remember that your bf is with you now, and that's his choice. If he didn't want to be with you, he wouldn't be.

As to saying the same kinds of things to his ex etc, just bear in mind that communication of feelings can be difficult for many guys to vocalise... I think it's more how he treats you and makes you feel that will show his love rather than written messages.

Hope this helped a bit