[sally_d]

i find myself running into more problems now these days and i'm not even creating them. I try to stay out of them. A couple of months ago during my seperation I met a man we haven't gone out or even started dating yet. he had asked me to go out we just never set a date to even get together yet either he's busy or i'm too busy dealing with my own problems. Just talking on the phone regulary. For sometime I had to put him aside due to so I can put my other problems aside and to get settled with my situation. And hopefully build our friendship back up if its ever a possiblity.

We both are a member on orkut. And he's only on my friends list and he has 2 other friends on orkut. After about a couple of months not talking to him I receive a message from a friend of his ( girl) that what my relationship with this man is. I'm like where the hell is this comming from. I texted him and said this is whats going on. I told him that did he say anything to this girl about me he said only a little. I told him i'll contact her and talk to her if i have too so its better if you say it. He told me a little and said not to make the situation worser. He called me and said dont worry I wouldn't do anything to hurt you and you should trust me.

This girl turned back told me " Aren't You Married" And what do you want with this man. I was stunned. Really was. Usually I loose it on people like this. Really do cuz people like these do make me mad. I dont know was he talking alot about me that got her angry to contact me? She also told me he doesn't even know I contacted you. And that she was curious to know what my relationship was with this man. Even if i had a relationship with him what's it to her? She also told me she liked him.

I'm not even that type of person to fight for a man trust me I have my other issue's to be worried about. I've got my own set or problems. I was not keen on talking to this other man at all not at this point. But I did contact him and told him what's going on. I want to step aside and just pretend as nothing ever happened on the other hand i would like to know what he has said about me that drove her up the wall to contact me. he told me have nothing to do with it in a form I respect him to do as he ask's. I just cant.

I dont want any problems comming my way that's the last thing I need please help me try to stay out of these kind of situation's. What do yall think?

[Lenny]

Originally Posted by sally_d

I was not keen on talking to this other man at all not at this point.

Hi sally and welcome to PC...

I think that is a perfectly rational statement.

Drama is a poor beginning to any serious relationship...

IMHO.

Lenny