[div_mal]

My boyfriend gets angry over small things,and calls me names,has hit me like insane a lot of times,help?

he acuses me, talks rubbish when angry,has lied to me so many times,has disrespected me so many times in front of his family. i went back to meet my parents for a visit, when i came back i saw he called his ex girlfriend a couple of times. we have been in a relationship for approx three years now. i do see a good future with him, but one side of me is very very scared.
when he is not with me i miss her terribly,and want to be with him,i let go of his mistakes thinking one day he will love me softly and not be harsh,i think i cannot have emotions with another person in my life anymore.

[gimmeice]

Hello div mal, it's nice to meet you. Have you talked to your boyfriend about him getting into some counseling? I think it would be hard to have a good relationship if he is treating you badly, try to remember it is important to take care of yourself.

If you have any questions feel free to private message any community liaison or moderator, here is a link to list of forum leaders.
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[AAAAA]

Hello div mal, welcome to PC! I'm sorry that your boyfriend is treating you this way, it sounds like he has a problem that won't be solved without proper treatment. You deserve someone that is going to treat you with love and respect. Until he gets treatment and you realize that the way he treats you is wrong, your future will hold much of the same. With a lot of work it is possible to make this a healthy relationship. Good Luck!