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Old Apr 16, 2009, 09:09 PM
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I miss my husband so much. He has been gone for 6 days on vacation and won't be back for another 3. I felt like we both needed a break for a bit as we do everything together. Now......I miss him TERRIBLY!
My heart aches, I am feeling sad, a little depressed. I know he is coming back and I know I could talk to him, but I don't want to tell him how bad I feel.
I long for his return. I miss his hugs, kisses, wise words and love.
Maybe I just seem like a whiny baby. Maybe some people will think "at least you have a husband" or "at least you have someone that loves you", but that is not all of it....he is my best friend and the love of my life.
I just needed to vent my feelings and I don't know if this was the right spot to put this, but I needed to get it out.
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Old Apr 16, 2009, 09:23 PM
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Old Apr 16, 2009, 09:30 PM
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Thank you Fuzzybear
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Old Apr 18, 2009, 01:36 AM
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I miss my husband so much. He has been gone for 6 days on vacation and won't be back for another 3. I felt like we both needed a break for a bit as we do everything together. Now......I miss him TERRIBLY!
My heart aches, I am feeling sad, a little depressed. I know he is coming back and I know I could talk to him, but I don't want to tell him how bad I feel.
I long for his return. I miss his hugs, kisses, wise words and love.
Maybe I just seem like a whiny baby. Maybe some people will think "at least you have a husband" or "at least you have someone that loves you", but that is not all of it....he is my best friend and the love of my life.
I just needed to vent my feelings and I don't know if this was the right spot to put this, but I needed to get it out.
oh onlymedid, it's wonderful what you feel for your husband....that's so great....cherish this feelings and when he's back tell him how you felt for him...I had this feelings for my ex-boy friend....that was the best thing ever....I miss him too...I wish we could stay together....but God wanted different ways for us!
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Old Apr 18, 2009, 08:17 AM
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Thank you for hugs, Hurtingintn!

Marjan, Thank you for the kind words. I will be sure to tell him when he gets back. He will be back tomorrow night...late...but he will be back! WOOHOO

I'm sorry you and your ex didn't work out, but I think you are right, there is another plan for the both of you.
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Old Apr 18, 2009, 10:42 AM
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I know what you mean, my bf is my best friend and love of my life as well. We spend all our time together, yet the small amounts of time he is away I miss him so much.
And I hate sharing how horrible I feel because then he feels bad too. Have to though
Glad he's coming back to you soon, sending you some hugs
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Old Apr 19, 2009, 12:13 PM
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Aw!, that is so sweet!! Your post got me all mooshy! lol! ^.^

Why don't you want to tell him how you feel? Wouldn't you be happy if your husband called you and told you he felt the same way you do? That he loves you, misses you terribly, and can't wait to see you again? I'd be thrilled to bits! You are a lucky woman and your husband is lucky to have you as well because you sound like a very sweet and loving person.

All the best to the both of you!
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Old Apr 20, 2009, 12:03 AM
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Yep me ,,,, It is a VERY Special place , when our other halves ,,,,, are also , Our Best Friend .

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