Since mom died - family has not gotten along
My sisiterinlaw ahs been mean and sent mean emails to me
and brother goes along with it
Now over 2 years they want me to go to cookout
with my aunt form outer state
and then they went to my mother's aunts funeral services
It must be because I am changing exector of will
i was at parties- always sent gifts and never hear from anyone,money
adn cards- I can't go -she will get on me again
the kids - never call me or anything- sisinlaw was mean
to mom and took full advantage of my parents
he called 2x and sent email
her email is on fiter
Thanks for letting me get it out

[thunderbear]

Originally Posted by sunshineinthecity

Since mom died - family has not gotten along
My sisiterinlaw ahs been mean and sent mean emails to me
and brother goes along with it
Now over 2 years they want me to go to cookout
with my aunt form outer state
and then they went to my mother's aunts funeral services
It must be because I am changing exector of will
i was at parties- always sent gifts and never hear from anyone,money
adn cards- I can't go -she will get on me again
the kids - never call me or anything- sisinlaw was mean
to mom and took full advantage of my parents
he called 2x and sent email
her email is on fiter
Thanks for letting me get it out

Hi sunshineinthecity. I have been going through similar things with my family over my mom's estate and things. I was appointed exceutor of my mom's will the other day and my sister is'nt talking to me because of it. I hate it that your brother is allowing his wife to send you hateful mail. I would never allow my husband to do that. And really I would tell your sister in law it is none of her doggone business what goes on with your mother's estate and will. It's between you and your brother.

I think brother agrees and has done it
she has sent a alot of thes- so he knows she is doing it
I I finally sent 2 senetence email- I am not going
I called my aunt and she said that my brother and wife are helping her with
money problems-investment-
So I will et them all go-
I changed exec for my will brothers are no longer involved- they keep asking for money and then are rude to me- I don' t think they liked that-

[thunderbear]

Originally Posted by sunshineinthecity

I think brother agrees and has done it
she has sent a alot of thes- so he knows she is doing it
I I finally sent 2 senetence email- I am not going
I called my aunt and she said that my brother and wife are helping her with
money problems-investment-
So I will et them all go-
I changed exec for my will brothers are no longer involved- they keep asking for money and then are rude to me- I don' t think they liked that-

They probably did'nt which goes to show you that they are-sorry to say this- selfish. Just hang in there hun. It's hard but before too long you'll get to where you just don't care anymore.

[lynn P.]

Hi,
I agree with Thunderbear, that your SIL has no business sending you nasty e-mails. When someone dies, it brings out the worst or the best in people. In your case it has brought out the worst. It's very common that the executor of a will gets the brunt of frustration do to jealous siblings. It brings up sibling rivalry all over again. Tell your SIL to butt out and tell your bro to speak up for himself. Hang in there and stay strong.