[lunatic soul]

Some time ago I came close to my ex T and touched his lips with my lips but he didnt let me kiss him, so I kissed his neck but he said many times- that day you kissed me even it wasn't a real kiss in my opinion. I will never forget it.
Have you ever tried to kiss your T or kissed him/her or be kissed by him/her?

[nicoleflynn]

Originally Posted by lunatic soul

Some time ago I came close to my ex T and touched his lips with my lips but he didnt let me kiss him, so I kissed his neck but he said many times- that day you kissed me even it wasn't a real kiss in my opinion. I will never forget it.
Have you ever tried to kiss your T or kissed him/her or be kissed by him/her?

Yes, I kissed him on the cheek years ago. I have sent you a pm.

[Petra5ed]

Nope, but I'd like to!

[lunatic soul]

Originally Posted by Petra5ed

Nope, but I'd like to!

Are you thinking about doing it or it's just fantasies? Sorry for asking.

[Petra5ed]

I wouldn't try to kiss him unless I felt like it was mutual, so just fantasies. I mean, if I plant one on him and he's not interested in it then it seems it would be kind of mean and unfair to him, and I'd worry he would terminate me for crossing a boundary like that if nothing else. Plus, I'm not very smooth. LOL.

So when you kissed him he obviously didn't pull back in horror, so what happened?? He just said no and let you kiss his neck?

[lunatic soul]

Originally Posted by Petra5ed

I wouldn't try to kiss him unless I felt like it was mutual, so just fantasies. I mean, if I plant one on him and he's not interested in it then it seems it would be kind of mean and unfair to him, and I'd worry he would terminate me for crossing a boundary like that if nothing else. Plus, I'm not very smooth. LOL.

So when you kissed him he obviously didn't pull back in horror, so what happened?? He just said no and let you kiss his neck?

I touched his lips, he pulled me back and said no, he held me away from him and his hands was on my hips so I liked it. I hugged him, he hugged me back and then I kissed his neck, it was too close to my lips so I couldn't stop myself which I did not only one time when we hugged.

Yeah, wonderful dead memories, I would do everything to turn it back. It's so good to remember it but so sad it's all gone.

[iheartjacques]

I'd love to kiss mine. But he pretty much keeps to himself.

[SilentTrice]

I would love to kiss mine but I wouldn't want to cross that boundary and get terminated. So I'll just sit back a dream of doing it for now.

[doyoutrustme]

Its a nice fantasy, but in real life, a terrible and awful idea on so many levels.

[anilam]

For me it's not even a nice fantasy but hey whatever rocks your boat...

But to actually go there with your T... Now that's very troubling.
LS, I think your T acted very unprofessionally- even though he did pull back, he shouldn't have hugged you afterwards and let you kiss his neck:/
Sorry this has happened to you and I know you would disagree but I'm glad he's your ex T, hope you have a better one now.

In a social situation, I gave my T a hug and kissed his cheek. It was a greeting.

I don't even see the opportunity for it.

I also think that a male patient kissing a female T would be seen as an act of aggression moreso than a female patient with a male T. I'm certain she would feel threatened and in some kind of danger if I pulled a move on her.

I have fantasised about kissing her though. I want her to comfort me and hold me in her arms and kiss me slowly and continuously, maybe for 30 minutes.

[RTerroni]

No but I did in a dream once

[CantExplain]

Originally Posted by lunatic soul

Some time ago I came close to my ex T and touched his lips with my lips but he didnt let me kiss him, so I kissed his neck but he said many times- that day you kissed me even it wasn't a real kiss in my opinion. I will never forget it.
Have you ever tried to kiss your T or kissed him/her or be kissed by him/her?

Ts and *****s have this common: no kissing.

[JustShakey]

LS, it's part of your T's responsibility to stay at a safe distance for you. Your ex-T failed you. It seems like he couldn't handle your feelings or his own response. You need a new T, with better boundaries, perhaps older and more parental, so you can work through all this stuff before you're swamped by it.