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Jun 10, 2015, 03:48 PM
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So, I didn't stop myself, and let myself "go there." What I learned was that thinking about male or female naked bodies with me is ALL ick! I don't discriminate. But lying next to T would feel good. and she would be gentle.
So, it was no big deal, and lightening didn't strike me for fantasizing! And yes, I told T and she won't kick me out for it or for liking her wet hair, or anything like that. I told her in my session when I wasn't afraid anymore, so I don't think that's what my fear was about. ( I started a thread about fear of T.) |
 Depletion, growlycat, LonesomeTonight, Tearinyourhand
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Jun 10, 2015, 05:56 PM
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Lightning. Otherwise all lesbians would be blonde. Umm...
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#3
Jun 10, 2015, 06:45 PM
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Jun 10, 2015, 07:52 PM
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Good for you! Fantasies are free and completely harmless! They can be private or shared. I shared most of mine about my therapist with her, but some I kept to myself.
NO shame!!! Just enjoy pleasant thoughts. much better than nasty thoughts, I think;-).
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Pam 
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Jun 10, 2015, 08:28 PM
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You are brave for bringing up those issues!!!!
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Jun 10, 2015, 08:59 PM
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I'm so happy for you rainbow. I think it can be very important to be able to escape into that sweet little world every once and a while.
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Your faith was strong but you needed proof You saw her bathing on the roof Her beauty in the moonlight overthrew you She tied you to a kitchen chair She broke your throne, and she cut your hair And from your lips she drew the Hallelujah --leonard cohen |
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Jun 11, 2015, 02:44 AM
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 Well done, it's great you were able to give yourself that permission! Wondering if I can get struck by fake tan for fantasising about my T...would save a lot of time and effort... But seriously, I hope that this has made you feel more accepting of some of these feelings and wants. I (personally) think we're all on a spectrum really, those feelings are available to everyone, even if just a tiny bit. Sexual attraction is healthy and not wrong. 
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| baseline, LonesomeTonight, rainbow8
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#8
Jun 11, 2015, 10:50 AM
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Congratulations.
 And LOL at blonde lesbians and lightening (Personally, I prefer brunettes but to each their own) :-) I'm so happy you could own that moment, your own feelings, and your own sexuality at your own pace.
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| rainbow8
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