[AnnaFa]

Hi everyone
I am a 27 years old female with relationship and career issues.
I have been seeing a new therapist for about a month. Since the very first session he claimed that his method of treatment is different from many therapists and he uses a method named Hypnotherapy and energy therapy. He also gives some practices which should be done at home before sleep. These practices consist of imagining his voice, look and touch!
It was ok at first but as we continued our sessions he began touching me and hugging me. At first it was all about chakras. He told me that my second chakra, which is located at the root of sexual organs, is the most active!
I got suspicious but I ignored my feelings. But he kissed me in our last session. More than once! Surprisingly, he claims that you are the one controlling the whole session (means if we are kissing or touching or whatever, you want this and not me. It’s for your treatment. You need it.)
I made a great progress in my life through the sessions and I find it hard to quit. At the same time I am totally confused and sometimes feel abused too.
You tell me, should I talk to him? should I quit?

[coolibrarian]

I'm sorry this happened to you. Get out now. It most certainly is abuse.
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[toomanycats]

You should quit and report him to the state licensing board. (Edit to add: I see you are in the UK per your profile; I'm not sure who you report to there, but whoever it is...it's reportable for sure)
That is absolutely abuse. I'm so sorry this happened to you.

[AllHeart]

I would not further endanger yourself by talking to him about this. He is psychologically manipulating you into believing this is therapy and that you are in control. Kissing is NEVER a part of therapy. This is mental and sexual abuse. Trust your instincts. Run as fast as you can from this "therapist." And please report him if you can. This man is demented.

[southernsky]

His behavior is extremely inappropriate. I definitely agree with the others that you should not go back to him and should look into reporting him since he is probably preying on a lot of people who are coming to him for help. He is trying to use your trust in him for his own sexual gratification.

[nicoleflynn]

Yes, professional/sexual misconduct. He should be reported.

[Jessica Hazlitt]

This is so dodgy. If it was just he hugged you / kissed your cheek to say goodbye then I'd say go back and talk about it but be careful. However this thing about it being you that's leading things, that's a big red flag right there. That's like (to use a stereotype) the abusive husband making the wife believe she deserves to be beaten. Stay clear and get in touch with his superior immediately. Guys luck & stay safe!