[Loco4]

So I’ve been with T for three years, and around the one year mark I had intense romantic feelings. They settled after we acknowledged them, and as time went on my transference became more maternal.

My T just recently got married. I couldn’t help myself but try to find some photos. It wasn’t very hard at all actually, found them on Facebook. Before I looked through them I thought I might get really jealous and upset. I did it anyway, and surprisingly it didn’t bother me that much.

Seeing photos of T holding, kissing, laughing and dancing with her new husband. I didn’t feel jealousy or anger or envy. Just made me think about how far I’ve come and how the feelings can subside.

Which I could resolve my attachment issues and need to be nosy, but that’s a work in progress.

[DP_2017]

Sounds like great progress