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Nov 03, 2007 at 09:10 AM
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Reproduced from our "Chats" page. These rules apply to the time Dr. Grohol is hosting a Q&A in the chat room only.
Thanks! __________________ Don't throw away your shot. Last edited by DocJohn; Jan 07, 2009 at 07:22 PM.. |
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Nov 12, 2007 at 11:53 PM
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THANK YOU for taking the time to host such chats!
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Feb 29, 2008 at 09:54 PM
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I need to post 6 times before I can enter chat rooms so I'm spreading myself around, leaving breadcrumbs hoping someone will find me. Yep I have to admit that I'm needy. I couldn't believe it when my psych told me that. What! I've never needed anyone in my life and I've never been lonely either. So there.
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Jan 07, 2009 at 07:19 PM
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I was wondering if there are any rules about what can and can not be talked about in chat? I've seen some rules scattered around here and there about other things regarding chat, but not this one. The q came up in chat earlier but I'm not sure about it.
Like it's not allowed to post about religions to much. I'm guessing same thing goes about chat? Like no reall indepth conversations as they can quickly turn into heated debates? How about political topics? Thanks  Blue __________________   
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Jan 07, 2009 at 07:23 PM
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The Community Guidelines apply to all areas of the community, including the chat rooms, yes.
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Jan 08, 2009 at 02:36 PM
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and does the rule about religion apply to political topics as well?
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Jan 15, 2009 at 05:31 PM
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yes blue it does apply
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Feb 13, 2009 at 02:57 AM
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this is just my opinion ..some people might be trigered when someone on chat room using red text s ..could u just erased that color or make the strick rules about it..thank you
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Feb 13, 2009 at 08:34 AM
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i think chat is an area that definately needs monitoring because of the nature of this site and the sensitivities present.. if we cant monitor ourselves then someone else has to do it, making a 'police type' situation.. we are looking for freedom so why dont we try and be responsible here?
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Feb 14, 2009 at 08:04 AM
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I just wanted to share that you can eliminate the problem of red text in your settings. Solves the problem, I don't get angry anymore just tab over and over ride the settings. It's also helpful when people feel the need to use those neon colors as well, that gives me an instant headache so it's a handy feature.
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Feb 14, 2009 at 01:32 PM
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Wouldnt that change all of the colors to black? Cause i like the diff colors, its usefull in recognising who wrote what. Or can you choose what colors you dont want to see? Either way if doc john cant/doesnt want to do anything about it, you can still politely ask. 99.99% dont mind at all and the rest well... if changing your color is so much trouble for you then you're not worth my time. *ignore feature works well too*
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Feb 14, 2009 at 03:59 PM
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Unfortunately DocJohn, can't take the red color out of the chat program as it is a bundled program and we have to take what is offered in the program. Many many folks don't understand how color can affect people. A polite mention of it and asking to change color is appropriate. I guess everyone has to find their own best work around for this situation for the time being. Where there's a will, there's a way
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Feb 15, 2009 at 11:11 PM
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Actually its not for me i dont have any problem with the text colors but when i came to chat someone freaking out with the red color so thats why i mention it here...iam sorry if i sound so rude never meant to do that...thank you for taking time to answer this...
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Feb 15, 2009 at 11:32 PM
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I didn't think you sounded rude at all. Right now the only things we can do are ask that the person change their text color or use the setting over-ride. I personally have found the setting over-ride very handy and I'm very happy that someone told me how to do it.
On a side note I have noticed a thread in red anyone have any suggestions for that? __________________ I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children. |
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Feb 16, 2009 at 05:54 AM
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A polite PM maybe?
__________________  Pegasus Got a quick question related to mental health or a treatment? Ask it here General Q&A Forum “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will live it's whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein |
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Feb 16, 2009 at 06:15 AM
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I meant more along the lines of an over ride for the forums. I really hate to be a pain, it is my issue after all. Some people just like to be colorful, I get that.
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Feb 16, 2009 at 06:21 AM
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Mmm... It's not just you, I think many people find the colour red a trigger, psychologically the red colour is used for warning or for anger. I'm not bothered by different colours but I can understand why some find it unpleasant.
Anyway this thread was supposed to be about DocJohn's Q and A chat sessions! Hugs
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Feb 06, 2010 at 07:33 PM
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If someone is kicked from chat for too much profanity, how long are they kicked for?
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Feb 06, 2010 at 07:52 PM
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You can start attending chats immediately.
I understand we talk @ sensitive topics, profanity just doesn't help anyone or move us forward. Just triggers. This is a caring, helping community. If this Chat was hosted (ie) prepared in advanced by a Chat Leader, you may consider sending a brief apology via PM, to the Chat Leader &/or some members, if applicable.jmo Peace, Holmes Last edited by mlpHolmes; Feb 06, 2010 at 08:05 PM.. |
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Feb 06, 2010 at 07:56 PM
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Thanks, but this might be different. My friend never kicked me, and he was hosting the chat. I got a warning from the chat, or something, and I held off the profanity, and then I accidentally swore and I was kicked, and now I can't go back on. I think it was one of those automatic warnings someone gets if they swear too much. But the host never kicked me out.
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