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Old Oct 29, 2013, 12:47 AM
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Please pray for us. My ex-husband fell off a ladder and sustained a brain injury. He had emergency surgery that day (Saturday). We were married 16 years.

We have a 10 year old daughter who loves her Daddy, and is a terrified wreck. I havent let her see him, he looks terrible, shaved bald, swollen and bruised, breathing tube and all.

Tragedy. The docs wont say anything about prognosis. He might die, he might live, he might have so much brain damage he will be in a nursing home the rest of his life.
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Old Oct 29, 2013, 03:00 AM
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Will pray for strength & healing.
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Old Oct 29, 2013, 03:09 AM
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(((((((((((BadGirlBlues)))))))))))))many hugs and prayers coming your way.
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Old Oct 29, 2013, 06:08 AM
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where there is acceptance, there is strength. please take care of yourself and your daughter, show her a good example~ i wish you the very best~

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Old Oct 29, 2013, 08:00 AM
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Thank you so much for the prayers and good wishes, much appreciated and unfortunately, needed badly. His mother called this morning, he's taken a turn for the worse.
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Old Oct 30, 2013, 09:10 AM
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thanks for keeping us informed. i hope you are remembering to take care of yourself during this terrible time~

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Old Oct 30, 2013, 12:20 PM
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Old Oct 30, 2013, 08:27 PM
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Thank you so much for all your kindness. He passed away this morning. My daughter is beyond upset, obviously, and there is so much sorrow.

But things happen for the best sometimes. He may have been in a coma for years to come, or brain dead.
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Old Oct 30, 2013, 10:06 PM
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Oh, sweetie, I am so sorry!! I was about to pray for him as I scrolled through your post and it took my breath away to read he'd passed away this morning. I grieve with you and your daughter, I can't imagine what it's like to lose her beloved Dad at the tender age of ten.

Heavenly Father, thank you for the time You'd given this man on this earth. Thank you for taking him Home in Your perfect timing and wisdom and sparing him further pain and suffering. Please give BadGirlBlues, their daughter and all who'd loved him strength and comfort as they grieve this loss. We pray this in Jesus' Holy Name, Amen.
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Old Oct 31, 2013, 02:37 AM
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(((((BadGirlBlues))))) am so very sorry for your loss.
Prayers for your daughter and the future without her daddy.
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Old Oct 31, 2013, 08:10 AM
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I said alot of prayers for you and yours, and a whole rosary just for you!!!
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Old Oct 31, 2013, 03:46 PM
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I said alot of prayers for you and yours, and a whole rosary just for you!!!
Thank you so much, it means a lot, i have fallen away from the church myself. I am going to say a rosary myself, it is so comforting, its like meditation
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Old Nov 01, 2013, 06:50 PM
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That is a terrible tragedy, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope everything is alright and that your daughter will get to grow up with a father
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Old Nov 02, 2013, 03:54 AM
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I am very sorry BadGirlBlues.

My heart just ached as I read this thread ~ I feel for you and your daughter. The loss must be very difficult...I can only imagine.

As a TBI survivor myself, I can assure you that my entire life changed rather dramatically after my accident. Slipping on the ice in March 2007 and falling upon my head. I had gone through brain surgery for epilepsy one year prior, so I thankfully had extra space in my brain for the intracraneal bleeding that occurred with my TBI.

Very gentle hugs to you and your daughter!
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Old Nov 02, 2013, 07:23 AM
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Ex and brain surgery

life is no bed of roses, but memories can be a great comfort to us. i hope you continue to come here as you grieve, and do not be alone and lonely~

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Old Nov 02, 2013, 10:27 AM
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So very sorry for your loss. It will be extremely hard on your daughter. Hope love and patience will sustain you.
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Old Nov 15, 2013, 11:01 PM
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Thank you all so much, it is truly meaningful to have so many heartfelt gestures of support and kindness.

My daughter is really hurting, my parents are staying with us for awhile, and they are arranging for her to begin grief counseling. Thankfully they are here to do it! Im trying hard to start taking care of things myself.
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