[bebop]

I am feeling a bit overwhelmed right now. With us having the new place many things are going on. There is a huge need for property cleanup which I can't do. Hubby is working nights so he sleeps days. I am helping my dad out and now his sister. They put her in the hospital yesterday so new drs for me to try to catch up to. They did some tests today and she has a blockage in her heart so that needs to be taken care of asap. My mothers sister which is also my dad's sister in law was at the same hospital today in the er. They diagnosed her with dementia. She has one living son and he made her go but we were at their house. *sigh* my plate is too full. please please keep us in your prayers.

you and your family will be in my prayers.........

[bebop]

thank you butterfly. I really appreciate it.

oh dear.......you will be in my prayers and i'll call my sister......that is an awful lot for one person to try to manage. xoxoxo pat

[SeptemberMorn]

Why is this all on you, Be? Or is it more an emotional upset than actually having to take care of all these people?

You'll be in my prayers as always.

[bebop]

thanks Pat

Tomi my dad's sister has no children. Dad can't comprehend things going on so therefor it leaves me. my mom's sister has her son and a neice that are helping her so that one is not totally on me but I will help when/if I can. I have always been like the backbone of my family. it is trying to say the least.

[Christina86]

Alrighty, will do bebop... I sincerely hope everything works out if it can.

[bebop]

thanks christina. I really appreciate it

[(JD)]

You've been running full tilt for a while now bb!! Hang in there, we here at PC will help hold you up!

[bebop]

sky thanks hon. you are right about that. running full tilt. think I am tilting myself lol. I need a good cry.

[(JD)]

here's one

[bebop]

lol

[Sarah116]

I will I'll be thinking of you! (((hugs)))

[bebop]

thanks sarah. right now I am shakey. just called the hospital she was transfered to today and they did not put the stint in her heart. I can't get thru to them there so it is upsetting big time. thank you

[bebop]

update on my aunt. they did her heart cath yesterday and they could not put in a stint. she has to have triple bypass. they can't do it yet due to kidney not functioning right just like my dad's was last year. please keep those prayers going.

[Fuzzybear]

[(JD)]

surely. My 97 yr old friend was in a similar fix a few years ago (douible I think) ,,he's doing great today!

[EJ711]

Bebop,

Thanks for the update on your aunt.

You sure do have a lot on your plate.

Let us know when her surgery gets scheduled.

(((((((((Bebop))))))))))))

EJ

[bebop]

sky that is wonderful!

EJ thanks hon. they are going to do it either monday or tuesday. I feel bad because I haven't been able to get to the hospital to see her since wednesday. was going today but they called hubby into work *sigh*

[EJ711]

Hi Bebop,

You can only do what you can do.

Hang in there.

(((((((((((Bebop))))))))))))))))

Hugs,

EJ

[Sammy]

You'll be in my prayers tonight. I hope this weight is soon liffted from you.

Take care of yourself

x

[bebop]

thanks ej.

[bebop]

updating. she had her surgery today and they did a double bypass. it took a little longer. she had a leak in one of the veins but they got that stopped. so far she has had 6 units of blood. I am staying the night at the hospital in a sleeping room they provide for the families and they have wireless internet! woo hoo. she is still under really but they hope to have her off the vent by midnight. keeping fingers crossed. thanks everyone for all your prayers and thoughts. much love and peace to everyone

[EJ711]

Bebop,

How nice to have sleeping rooms and internet service. I think you can probably talk to your aunt and let her know you are there. I'm so glad the surgery is behind her.

((((((((((((Bebop)))))))))))))))

Surrounding you and your aunt with prayers and love,

EJ

[bebop]

EJ me too hon. it is 7 am and I went back to see her at 5:30am she is still on the vent but starting to wake up more. she did know who I was so that is a positive sign. this particular hospital is rated number 1 in the state over the one that use to have it that I had so much faith in. wow this one rocks! they explain every detail to you. thanks for the support hon!