We get hurt because either we did not know better, or another person did not know better.
Each one of us must determine what we ourselves could have done better and then do better.

We suffer because of the natural consequences of our ignorance.
The natural consequences of our ignorance pushes us to know better.
When we have suffered enough, we will know better and consequently do better
The more we know and do better, the less we will suffer.

Everything that has happened, is happening and will happen in our lives is orchestrated to make us better.

Be grateful for everything that happens
All things are working out for good.
We are safe.

[Gus1234U]

i like an old saying: in this life, Pain is Mandatory, but Suffering is Optional.

to me it means that we don't have to think of everything we don't like as BAD, to be avoided, judged, condemned and beat to death. some pain is totally acceptable, like getting my ears pierced, or getting blood taken. or loving someone who isn't Perfect (!!! like, who is ? ).

i might grow old before i die. but i will die someday; the great adventure continues... so, i chose for my motto: be here now. this is the only time i can truly choose not to suffer, no matter what pain i may be in.

i'm glad you are feeling SAFE~ because, in truth, you are right, we are children of spirit, and are never extinguished. (in my opinion)

Here and now, we all have an understanding of everything here and now, there and then & where and when.
When we get to where and when, our understanding of here and now will change, as will our understanding of there and then

Some will say that we suffer because of our ego and unfulfilled desires. They say the 'cure' is to have no ego and no desires.
Having no desires and no ego is not human.
The answer is to use our egos to correct our desires so they align with love.

We can only do this if we seek the Creator.

[flockpride]

In some ultimate sense, freedom from ego is Freedom. However, for the time being, we are embodied, conscious, sentient beings and that means we have to deal with the presence of ego. We can seek relief, but engagement is key, rather than escape. We are always connected to Love, even when we cannot sense it.

[avlady]

i like this thread, i totally agree with all.

[Gus1234U]

when i feel safe, i can support your safety~

The feeling of being safe is simply the feeling one has when they have have conquered their fears.

Love of course is the answer.

Seek Love and you will find the answer.
Seek Love and you will have it All.

The wonderful thing is that Love is bringing us all together as One.
We are all becoming conscious as ONE.

Love is the Law.
Love is God or whatever you want to call it.

What is love?
Love is All.

EVERYONE WILL BE OK SOON

To Clarify:

It is not wishful thinking to say that we are safe.
The truth is that we are always safe.

The first step towards wisdom, "recovery" and "healing" is to know this:
Everything happens for a reason.
The reason is to make us all wise, strong, loving and whole beings.

There is indeed an all powerful loving Power/Force/God/Creator.
Everything happens according to the Creator’s Plan.
Everyone is included in this plan.
Everyone is headed to the same place.

We are all waking up to know this.


*These are spiritual truths.
These are not religious beliefs.

If anyone wants to debate what I write, this is not the place.
Spiritual truth cannot be debated.
Spiritual truth can only be realized.

[Fuzzybear]