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Old Jun 25, 2016, 10:37 AM
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My brother has the kindest soul I have ever known. He has cared for his wife, who has myasthenia gravis, and has raised three kids to adulthood.

Almost a year ago, he was laid off from a job he had for over thirty years. That job paid pretty well, but with all his wife's medical bills, it was not possible to save a large amount of money. He is now losing his house, and just recently found a part time job at Home Depot...where he is paid $10/hr to bring the carts in from the parking lot.

As bad as this all is, he started having pain in his left arm a few days ago. Like many, he blew it off, until he had more severe pain in his arm, and now chest, last night. Thankfully, he is in the hospital, and scheduled for a heart cath at noon.

He has dealt with so, so much, please pray that he makes it thru this okay, and that life becomes kinder to him.
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Old Jun 25, 2016, 11:58 AM
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I don't really pray, but I will think of him. All the best with the heart examination.
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Old Jun 25, 2016, 01:48 PM
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The cath lab didn't give us good news. Lots of arterial blockage, he is now in ICU. Bypass surgery being scheduled.
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Old Jun 25, 2016, 10:50 PM
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Old Jun 25, 2016, 11:26 PM
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Thank your very much for your thoughts and prayers. My brother has 90% blockage in his arteries, and will be getting a quadruple bypass tomorrow. CV surgeon expects the surgery to go well (no side issues to complicate things), so that is hopeful news.
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Old Jun 26, 2016, 08:58 AM
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Hoping everything goes well for your brother
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Old Jun 26, 2016, 10:31 AM
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i will concentrate my holy communion today for him.
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Old Jun 26, 2016, 11:43 AM
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Thank you Clairvoyant Boy and avlady. He has been in surgery for 3 hours. Found out that they are a bit worried about him bleeding too much because of previous medications. A hemotologist is in there, and blood is on standby, but no bleeding problems so far. The surgeon is currently happy with how surgery has been going.
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Old Jun 26, 2016, 12:10 PM
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I can understand the complex emotions you are going through. I experienced the same with a loved one. Love and prayers...
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Old Jun 26, 2016, 01:38 PM
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Thank you cinnamonstick.

Thank you all for your thoughts, prayers, and hopes for my brother.

They are closing him up now, everything went very very well, and they don't expect any post op issues.
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Old Jun 27, 2016, 06:19 AM
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Old Jul 05, 2016, 01:52 PM
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Old Jul 28, 2016, 01:36 PM
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Old Jul 28, 2016, 02:19 PM
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Thank you Fuzzybear, and everyone for your support

My brother is making an amazingly quick recovery. Other than the expected post-op pain, and the required restrictions for activity...it is like he is the same as he was before surgery. lol, although I am betting he feels much better without the clogged arteries.
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Old Jul 28, 2016, 07:54 PM
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Keeping your brother in my prayers for a thorough recovery and uplifting of financial situation.
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Old Jul 29, 2016, 11:50 AM
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Old Aug 05, 2016, 05:18 PM
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I hope your brother's health continues to improve. I'm keeping him in my prayers.
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Old Aug 08, 2016, 11:17 AM
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Old Aug 08, 2016, 03:46 PM
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Old Aug 10, 2016, 02:00 PM
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Old Aug 10, 2016, 04:42 PM
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I will Pray for your brother. I sent you a friend request in case you want to talk via Private Message. Take care.
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Old Aug 10, 2016, 10:24 PM
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Your brother is in my prayers starting tonight. Hugs to you both. Bypasses can do wonders. Both my mom and dad got one and the operation did wonders for them Realize this isn't about me. Wanted to try to give you encouragement.
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Old Aug 10, 2016, 10:31 PM
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sad story...sorry to hear. I'll seems a prayer out to you brother tonight
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