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Old Sep 24, 2019, 07:59 PM
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My 31 yr. daughter has schizoaffective and bipolar. She also has drug addiction issues. I have been going with her to her medication appts.
Sometimes I feel like an intruder or that I am tattling on her.
How do you feel about some going with you to your appointments.

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Old Sep 24, 2019, 08:47 PM
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No one ever goes with me to my appointments, but sometimes I feel it would be nice to have someone who cares enough to do that
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Old Sep 25, 2019, 07:31 AM
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I'm 45 was 44 at the time. My mom came to my initial appointments. I was pretty out of it. Told the doctor the meds I tried how she had lost hope. He told her I have a med that works.

Now I have a job an apartment and am doing well. I don't know what I'll do when mom dies. She's really been there for me. She doesn't go now that I'm stable.
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Old Sep 25, 2019, 07:55 AM
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I wouldn't have my mom go with me, but if I needed someone, I would absolutely have my best friend go with me. She has gone to medical appointments with me and it has helped immensely.
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Old Sep 25, 2019, 09:42 AM
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Not my mom but my husband comes with me. I would never allow my mom to go because she doesn't need to know how much I struggle. Is she truly honest with you there? You could always wait in the waiting room.
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Old Sep 25, 2019, 12:40 PM
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My Mom has come with me before when I am really struggling. It's nice for the support.
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Old Sep 27, 2019, 07:59 AM
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My 31 yr. daughter has schizoaffective and bipolar. She also has drug addiction issues. I have been going with her to her medication appts.
Sometimes I feel like an intruder or that I am tattling on her.
How do you feel about some going with you to your appointments.

Might be time to ask your daughter how she feels about it.
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Old Oct 03, 2019, 02:57 AM
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31 now. My mom went with me from 23 to 28. I told her I wanted her to because I wouldn't be completely truthful to the Dr about my symptoms or know what to tell the Dr because I thought most everything I was thinking was normal. I had a friend go with me the first year after diagnosis. When they couldn't anymore they suggested I ask my mom. So glad I did.
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My Mom usually offers to go with me. I have let her come when I am really struggling. If I am doing okay I do it by myself. HUGS Kit
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