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Mar 15, 2018 at 12:49 AM
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how do SPD-people deal with or handle loss / grief???
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Poohbah
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Mar 17, 2018 at 09:36 PM
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In the same cold way they deal with everything.
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Dec 25, 2018 at 09:11 PM
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I react coldly as in I feel nothing. When my cousin died in the same city that I live in I felt nothing I couldn't even feel sorry for my Aunt and relatives. It was difficult to hide this from everyone. When my mother was dying I was terribly conflicted and felt compelled to try and find authenticity until the end. I did the right thing but authentic? Sad to admit that even then I can't say I found it..authentic for me means the self unconnected from other people and even then its nebulous.
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Dec 25, 2018 at 09:43 PM
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I can't answer this for you.
 But perhaps you may find at least part of your answer in this article from PC's archives:Understanding Schizoid Personality Disorder | The Exhausted Woman 
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Jan 21, 2019 at 11:10 PM
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I usually just get sad for a few hours and maybe a day or two at max (which is was how I was when my cat died) before moving on with my life. No point in grieving anyways.
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