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I have a meeting with my rehab pdoc and nurse on Wednesday, which I cancelled over a week ago because I do not want to talk to them anymore. However, they've ignored my wishes and kept the appointment slot open. I'm thinking about not attending still, but I'm wondering if they will screw me over more if I don't go? What do you guys think??
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Wow that's really long! Sorry guys, but it's a complicated story and I want you to have all of the info to decide what's best.
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I think that if you don't "play the game" they will do what they want. You need an advocate other than your parents, to help you mediate.
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Thank you Little Cat! I see what you're saying, but these people are already doing what they want. They are keeping me IP despite them admitting that there is no risk to myself or others simply because I have a diagnosis of treatment resistant sz. How is that legal in this day and age??! My solicitor says it isn't, but it's hard to win. I'm tired of their lies. I'm tired of their abuse. If they think my life is a game, well, I don't want to play it with them anymore
A couple of people have suggested getting an advocate, but the last time I had one, they were completely useless. Besides, I don't want them to listen to my advocate, a complete stranger, I want them to listen to ME! :/ *Willow* |
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Why do your parents have to attend the meetings? If you don't want your treatment team talking to them, you have that right and it should be respected. Anyway, you are an adult.
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I an absolutely empathize with your desire to refuse the meeting. However, if you do this, you will never know what was said and discussed there. You will only be informed of the outcome later. If you are okay with this, then thats okay. But if you attend, you can at least hear whats said. And at this ctitical time while decisions are being made, i would personally take the opportunities to be viewed as actively participating in my own care. For mself i would expect this to help me be viewed positively, and i would want to do anything to get out. Thats just me though. Good luck!!
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Thank you for replying Didgee and Gr3tta
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I just object SO MUCH to the way I'm being treated and I'm worried that attending and 'engaging' with their BS will make them feel that it's not such a big deal and I don't really care that much. Not attending sends a clear message that I'm not happy about the way I've been treated. But, at the end of the day, I just want whatever gets me out of here ASAP... Idk... How do I make them see how badly they've treated me? How much they are failing to understand me? That they need to treat me like a human being who deserves their respect and kindness?? I don't know how to make them see me, understand me. I don't understand why they are getting it so wrong??! *Willow* |
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Some more reading material https://www.bma.org.uk/advice/employ...pacity-toolkit
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Does the UK have the equivalent of an obudsmann, who is a patient advocate? At the psych rehabilitation center where I used to work at, the phone number for the Ombudsmann office was on a poster next to the public phone. It may be helpful to feel that like there is a patient advocate who is objective to your concerns.
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Thank you Little Cat. I have read the capacity info before previous capacity meetings. It depends on the SOAD (how open minded they are, how well they listen etc) whether they deem me to have capacity or not.
Thank you Bukowski. We have advocates, but I don't know about ombudsmans. Are they the same thing?? I will see how the meeting goes and consider getting an advocate. It's just that they were completely useless last time I tried one, and I'm pretty assertive with them already so I don't know if it will help make them understand... *Willow* |
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I've decided to go to the meeting. Thank you for all of your advice! I'm really not happy about it, but they will use it against me if I don't go
ETA: I've asked for the back story on my OP to be deleted as I'm worried that they will find me here. *Willow* |
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I hope it end up well. I am sorry I didnt have any advice, I dont know how things work where you live.
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I hope it goes well for you.
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Thank you Oliver, Gr3tta and Miguel'smom
So I went to the meeting today. It went as well as I expected it to go. The pdoc completely gaslighted me! Apparently the reason that I believe that staff think I'm a freak isn't because they actually said that to me and they do treat me that way, oh no, because they wouldn't possibly do that! It must be because I'm a 'paranoid schizophrenic'. F***ing b*****d! *Willow* |
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Thank you Valley, Oliver and Sometimes for the hugs
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