[raf_edd]

Hey guys, just want to ask if some of you do the same. I have this thing of being very fast to find a girl I find attractive online. Rejection is always what I get when I message them. But even after that I keep creeping on their profile watching what they do. I mean it's not like I do it for hours or anything. But the rejection itself should be enough to block them or something. I say rejection becouse I'm basically ignored, only a girl who feels bad for me becouse we knew each other in school and hanged out texted me back. Anyway it's a vicious circle becouse my attention will go to the next girl that my mind decides is cute. Any one does that? Not maniacally, but after a ignore? Still go to their social media and see what their up to? I find it disgusting and creepy, but it's stronger than me.

[Heartshapetattoo]

Its about focus training. Train your mind to excersize restraint. Or say different things. Im 41 and single because i have no money to go out.

You understand why you barely got a response right? Because you're a potential threat. I know a guy that has a stalking problem and he eventually got a restraining order on, he violated it, and then got put in jail. It was completely humiliating and he was shamed by his community, and now it's triggering for him to even think about. He still does creep, but people stay clear of him. Maybe you need a psychologist. The guy just can't help but stalk women. I tried to rationalize with him but he just get's very angry and blows up and starts destroying stuff. Don't be this guy or else you'll live in public shame, with no friends, family will think you're odd, and then you're an outlaw in the making.

[Sometimes psychotic]

Honestly I felt this has nothing to do with psychosis.....you might want to post in relationships and communication section.

[LibertyBelle]

Stop looking for cute women and try to find one with common interests who is actually willing to hang out with you. Beauty fades. I say this as a cute woman, men who are interested in me only because of how I look are not interesting to me.

Let me be blunt, I have a fat, ugly, boyfriend and I love him. He treats me right and we have common interests. He's still stunned that I like him so much but he's a fun time. We get along. I'd rather be with him than a hot idiot or a rich jerk!

Try okcupid. Don't answer any of the sex questions. Answer all of the lifestyle questions and general interest ones. Then try to talk to women with match scores 90% or higher. You'll find someone cool eventually.

Dude stuck with me when my brain was having a psychotic meltdown this spring. He's a keeper. We had a 97% match score on okcupid.