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Default Mar 06, 2021 at 10:03 PM
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Do you guys have this problem too, when you text someone first you feel the urge to end the conversation as fast as you can because you’re afraid that you’re bothering them or afraid that they’ll get bored or your head is just blank even though you actually still want to talk?
Yes. I once had a friend.. He was very interesting - And I thought of him as kinda narcissistic.. I just didn't know what to say - I was like "Wow.. This person is genius, cool millionaire that beat the system.." BUT.. I knew that I could learn from him... If I knew about cryptic messaging, I'd still have contact with him.

Other people just talk and talk - Need grounding. Often I have nothing in my head - Creativity dies from antipsychotic. It's weird how you KNOW that your mind is blank and like "I can't believe I'm not saying anything" and don't believe that it's happening.. It's like something traumatizing is happening.

I don't contact family members cuz Idk what to say.
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Default Mar 06, 2021 at 10:10 PM
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Yes. I once had a friend.. He was very interesting - And I thought of him as kinda narcissistic.. I just didn't know what to say - I was like "Wow.. This person is genius, cool millionaire that beat the system.." BUT.. I knew that I could learn from him... If I knew about cryptic messaging, I'd still have contact with him.

Other people just talk and talk - Need grounding. Often I have nothing in my head - Creativity dies from antipsychotic. It's weird how you KNOW that your mind is blank and like "I can't believe I'm not saying anything" and don't believe that it's happening.. It's like something traumatizing is happening.

I don't contact family members cuz Idk what to say.
Trauma can makes us freeze or fly away. I can’t handle people who keep talking non stop but people who are too quiet makes an awkward conversation as well. The balance is what I need.

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