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Grand Poohbah
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Location: Australia
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Apr 24, 2024 at 11:14 AM
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I think I'm fed up with studying I'm a sick of all these studies and nothing to show for it there's no work. I'm just this sad life that makes everyone miserable I'm sick of draining everyone and everything. If I can't even do things at home not even cleaning I'm good enough at I get told what is a man gonna want a girl like you that can't even clean what's he gonna do just stare at your eyes.
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Location: NZ
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Apr 24, 2024 at 05:16 PM
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Hey Rose, nice to meet you. It doesn't sound like you are in a very fun place right now. I feel for you. The study thing can be hard, especially if you are questioning what the heck you are doing (in life). My only tip would be it is a million times easier if you are personally interested in the thing you are studying (and you might be!). It looks like you are doing study to find work, that's hard too but don't think about the study in relation to a specific job. Everything you learn is setting you up for whatever comes later on.
On your other point - if a guy doesn't want you because you can't/don't clean... a life tip would be that is the not the right guy for you. You want a partner not an employer. |
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Poohbah
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Location: The House
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Apr 24, 2024 at 07:09 PM
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It's not easy to clean when you're depressed. And you don't need to get "a man". Cultivate yourself first and not think that you will be "whole" because of a man. Don't give your personal power away. Become strong, and whole, and feel good in your own skin, then the right mate will more likely appear.
Also not easy answering the following question when depressed, but I'll ask you... What are you passionate about? Do you know? (Try to remember what interested you before mental health issues became a thing in your life.) Studying isn't for everyone. Maybe you're on the wrong path, listening to outside influences and doing what you "think" is expected. Allow yourself to lead with your heart... and dream!!! |
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Legendary Wise Elder
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Location: US
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Apr 24, 2024 at 07:20 PM
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Studying is for everyone but depends what kind of studying. If it’s a particular trade, it might be different than academics. College and university isn’t for everyone but everyone can learn something. Calculus might not be for you but learning how to cook might. Just an example of course
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