[nevertheless002]

Hello everyone,

I am facing a harsh obstacle on my way. I need to ... catch up someone who is 24 years (44) older than me... I need to grow up, I need to experience a lot of things, I need to learn a lot of things, I need to live my life at 4x normal pace...
I am determined. So please, comments like, its impossible... give up... they dont mean anything to me, You are just wasting Your time, well I could nourish my armor, but anyway, I ask everyone of You, who is willing to leave a helping comment to join in. Thanx for that.

There are several ideas : - You could describe what was important for You as experience/knowledge/ life events on Your path between 20- 40.
- You could describe what brought up those important lessons, experiences..
- What would You do, what would You not do....
- You could even describe differences that You can think of... You can even desccribe how older people think.... I know for the most part - it is time and experience - that changes the perception but IDC, I will fake it and I will make it, if I have to...
- You could describe ideas how to maintain the fast pace... how to get most experiences as fast as possible...
That's all I have come up with so far in this moment.
I can't give You much more than my gratitude back, but please help me with this.

Well, let me tell you that I am in the same boat as you. The only things I really have in life that attest to the fact that i am an adult is that i went to college, got a job, bought a house and got married. I have not left my hometown and have not done anything astounding interesting. But at the same time, I still maintain my childlike mentality. being an adult sucks lol j/k

[nevertheless002]

Hi ChaoticInsanity,

Thank You for Your message. I hope things go well for You, things You have already accomplished are not to be undervalued. I appreciate Your attention and I dont mean to be hostile in any way, so please try to not take it that way.

I have to defend myself here: Dont ! put me in the same boat, when You dont know me. I wont let You say something here about me like that! I dont like the fact that You are not quite comfortable with Your situation but dont put ME into the same category, I am different. I take care of this my own way. I am not gonna let anyone stick these negative thoughts onto me. Please, do not repeat that again.