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Old Feb 26, 2022 at 04:56 PM
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Old Feb 27, 2022 at 06:02 AM
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Iím sorry that you felt left out. Your friend sounds stubborn. Iím here if you ever want to talk. Is there away to find someone else to moved to?
Thanks Buffy. I wish you could move out of your family's place too. If you ever need to talk, I am here too.

I don't have any other friends. I did have a lady friend who wanted me to move into her place and pay her rent money but I had a falling out with her because she was rude to me but I know I didn't want to move into her place because she would likely have me drive her all the time and plus she has hoarding issues as well and has piles of books in her living room floor and other junk there. I finally dumped her because I find her emotionally cold person who judged me negatively saying she wasn't there to solve my problems. I was shocked because I never asked her to as I never assumed she could. I guess she hated me sharing my issues about the pandemic and loneliness. Anyway, it gave me reason to cut her off when she didn't like me and was only using me to drive her. I never cut people off. But she had it coming. She was always rude to me and being nice only when she needed my help.

I wish I had other friends but no.

People here suggested I put an ad for a roommate but that is too scary for me and it's a huge commitment to move in with a total stranger with my personal items. I heard too many horror stories and I am not usually lucky in meeting the right people.

And I know when people sign up for a place to rent, they usually have to sign a 1 yr contract.
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Old Feb 27, 2022 at 12:29 PM
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Thanks Buffy. I wish you could move out of your family's place too. If you ever need to talk, I am here too.

I don't have any other friends. I did have a lady friend who wanted me to move into her place and pay her rent money but I had a falling out with her because she was rude to me but I know I didn't want to move into her place because she would likely have me drive her all the time and plus she has hoarding issues as well and has piles of books in her living room floor and other junk there. I finally dumped her because I find her emotionally cold person who judged me negatively saying she wasn't there to solve my problems. I was shocked because I never asked her to as I never assumed she could. I guess she hated me sharing my issues about the pandemic and loneliness. Anyway, it gave me reason to cut her off when she didn't like me and was only using me to drive her. I never cut people off. But she had it coming. She was always rude to me and being nice only when she needed my help.

I wish I had other friends but no.

People here suggested I put an ad for a roommate but that is too scary for me and it's a huge commitment to move in with a total stranger with my personal items. I heard too many horror stories and I am not usually lucky in meeting the right people.

And I know when people sign up for a place to rent, they usually have to sign a 1 yr contract.
Me too.

I understand how you feel. Sometime we just have to cut people out of our lives. That is understandable especially when we can never be too careful about who we allowed ourselves to be involved with especially with living arrangements.

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Old Feb 27, 2022 at 08:38 PM
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Im breaking down the mountain of carp. Ive cleared a few square feet in front of the front door. Pretty soon i will be able to fit a grocery cart in here so i can pack up and throw out maybe 4 bags at a time. That would really cut down number of trips to do this. I am shooting for maintenance to convert the a/c in two weeks and for this place not to be horrifying when they come in.
I wrote that at the beginning of october. Its now the beginning of march. So my actuals are at least ten times my estimates. Thats good to know! But something has changed in me. Now i do on average five things a day, every day, up from maybe one! If something spills (like objects, not liquids), i am more likely to clean it up immediately, instead of letting it make a bigger mess.
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Old Mar 08, 2022 at 09:26 PM
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I AM making progress, and it doesnt feel too scary to say that.

I have been having a lot of good happy dreams lately. I dreamt my best friend threw me a birthday party (not something i usually go for, but it was pretty cool, there were a stackload of comedians there!). Ive been having work dreams, but not nightmares - i am participating and being listened to, unlike how it was IRL and in dreams since. I wake up feeling accomplished.

Matt and Dr whoever would still die if they saw my house, but it is starting to feel possible.
That is awesome in your progress. However I been having some really bad nightmares lately,

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Old Mar 08, 2022 at 09:27 PM
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I started decluttering again in my bedroom and took down my curtain that I no longer like any more.

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Old Mar 18, 2022 at 11:26 AM
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Had a really frustrating experience today where I was trying to clean the coils on our fridge. First I had to move all the stuff I have on top of it - cake pans, mixing bowls, cookbooks. Why do I have this stuff when I can't even eat baked goods anymore? Then I finally get the fridge out but give up on the idea of finding the right sized wrench and try to use pliers. It worked, but I pinched myself and lost a bolt. I get the thing apart and then can't find the brush I want. It's just so frustrating, there is so much crap in the basement that it doesn't take much for me to give up looking and buy a duplicate. I told my husband afterwards that we need to get rid of some stuff and he accused me of throwing out some things he couldn't find last week!
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Old Jun 01, 2022 at 07:28 PM
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I managed to clean up a little more of my closet and I bought some fake plants to brighten up my bedroom a little bit more.

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Old Oct 11, 2022 at 01:18 PM
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I got rid of lot of stuff. I can now shut my closet doors.

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Old Oct 17, 2022 at 06:53 PM
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I been helping my sister who I live with declutter her clothes.

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I am afraid you are asking the wrong people! :hug:
I always did just in case.

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Old Jan 25, 2023 at 07:23 PM
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I have been getting rid of more stuff . Lately I been decluttering my entertainment center as well as my closet.

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Old Jan 25, 2023 at 07:25 PM
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Had a really frustrating experience today where I was trying to clean the coils on our fridge. First I had to move all the stuff I have on top of it - cake pans, mixing bowls, cookbooks. Why do I have this stuff when I can't even eat baked goods anymore? Then I finally get the fridge out but give up on the idea of finding the right sized wrench and try to use pliers. It worked, but I pinched myself and lost a bolt. I get the thing apart and then can't find the brush I want. It's just so frustrating, there is so much crap in the basement that it doesn't take much for me to give up looking and buy a duplicate. I told my husband afterwards that we need to get rid of some stuff and he accused me of throwing out some things he couldn't find last week!
I just cleaned the ice tray in the freezer yesterday. One of my sister complained if anyone throws anything away.

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Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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