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Jul 20, 2018, 03:48 PM
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This topic came up for discussion at my support group last night and I found it very relevant as I have a huge difficulty doing so - and not just when it comes to when I am in a mental health crisis but when it involves help with tasks. I am wondering others' thoughts on this.
My biggest barricade to doing so is that I often feel I don't deserve help. |
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Jul 20, 2018, 03:58 PM
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I am a very independent spirit but as I have aged I've gotten better asking for help.
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True happiness comes not when we get rid of all our problems, but when we change our relationship to them, when we see our problems as a potential source of awakening, opportunities to practice patience and learn.~Richard Carlson |
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Jul 20, 2018, 04:01 PM
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Yeah I'm the same here's the reasons why I don't ask for help;
Don't deserve it Others need it more than I do I'm wasting time I'm not as ill as what I think People will judge me I'm not worthy of the help |
| BLUEDOVE, WishfulThinker66
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#4
Jul 20, 2018, 05:46 PM
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Please try any of these books:"Honouring The Self",and "The Six
Pillars Of Self Esteem". The guy is brilliant,he is psychologist and expert on subject. Nathaniel Branden. Courage, BLUEDOVE |
| WishfulThinker66
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