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Old Jan 04, 2023, 01:33 PM
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Im doing pretty good at doing at least one thing a day. Today was de-trashing the bathroom, getting deliveries, and staying on points on weight watchers. Also took my pee medicine. Was kinda achy all over, may have overdone the exercise yesterday, so skipped it today. Placed an edited Shipt order - usually get too much.
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Old Jan 05, 2023, 12:57 PM
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Today: change bed linens, go to drug store, make donations at thrift store, work on livingroom.

I'll end there because I want to keep by commitment easy to accomplish, so I don't reneg.
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Old Jan 05, 2023, 02:42 PM
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It quite possible.
Yeah i watched it today.
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Old Jan 06, 2023, 09:46 PM
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I didn't follow thru yesterday with my plan. But today I got that list mostly done.

I have a long way to go in getting a grip on time management. All my life I've had terrible time management skills. Now that I'm retired, I'm worse than ever. I spend huge chunks of time accomplishing nothing worth doing. Then I feel so bad about it.

I may emulate @FloatThruThis and start logging what I do with my time. I really want a better life.
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Old Jan 06, 2023, 10:48 PM
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I didn't follow thru yesterday with my plan. But today I got that list mostly done.

I have a long way to go in getting a grip on time management. All my life I've had terrible time management skills. Now that I'm retired, I'm worse than ever. I spend huge chunks of time accomplishing nothing worth doing. Then I feel so bad about it.

I may emulate @FloatThruThis and start logging what I do with my time. I really want a better life.
It takes time
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jan 06, 2023, 10:50 PM
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I did sixth loads of laundry filled up two bags of my sister clothes to donate as well as getting rid of one storage bin out of her closet and fixed my sister dresser for her today.
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jan 07, 2023, 03:31 PM
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Today I feel well rested. I'll do much better than yesterday. Laundry awaits.
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Old Jan 07, 2023, 06:12 PM
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I just stream my bed today and change sheets. I feel like I am going back to hoarder again even though I have been working very hard on getting rid of what I don’t need.
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jan 08, 2023, 04:27 PM
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I have tomorrow off too. I’m thinking of tackling a cabinet where random things collect. It’s a big job. I would need to break it up into 4 parts, & then also going through a plastic tub of toiletries that needs to be culled. But I’m done for today. Now I’m going to work in my dot journal & listen to my pandora radio station.
I cleaned out the gray cabinet today instead.

Start: 9:09am

1) top shelf: 1h, 13m

Break: 10:23am - 11:12am

2) bottom shelf: 1h, 20m

End: 12:32pm
Total time spent, including break: 3h, 23m

This felt horrible, but I pushed through anyway. I’ve identified about 30 books I want to donate to the little free libraries. In addition, I have a bag of trash & a bag of recycling. Now it’s time to zone out! I earned it.
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Old Jan 08, 2023, 05:34 PM
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Yeah i watched it today.
Awesome
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jan 08, 2023, 05:36 PM
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I clean out one drawer in my chess and hang pants up on my pants hanger in my closet
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Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch.

Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jan 09, 2023, 10:23 AM
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Remodeling one of the bathroom today
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jan 18, 2023, 04:18 PM
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I think my ozempic cooties are really over, like two months after taking it for a lousy two weeks. It was effective, but my whole abdomen ached so much i could barely get out of bed. Plus the pain woke me up when i tried to sleep. Plus i was like limping to the bathroom, all hunched over like a great great grampa.

But today! I just worked for about an hour, cleaning up a mess in what is my exercise area, when i can get to it! I dont know where the energy came from! Altho admittedly i was sitting as i sorted. Still!
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Old Jan 18, 2023, 05:42 PM
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Declutter one basket out from under my bedroom which I found some stuff that I been looking trying to find for several months.
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old May 21, 2023, 07:45 PM
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Hi everybody,

I want to be better about cleaning & organizing. I read a book recently that gave me an idea about making dreaded chores more tolerable by challenging yourself to do them as quickly as possible. Worth a shot.

Since it’s my day off today, I’ve got the time/energy to try this out. I’m planning on doing three things, with two additional things if I feel up to it. I tend to overdo & then quit, so it’s important to pace myself. The top three things:

1) Gather all my clean & clean-ish clothes in two places: the dresser & the closet. Right now they’re in about five places, which makes getting ready in the morning a hassle.

2) Clean out my bag. Pretty self-explanatory & “should” only take a minute or two, but we’ll find out...

3) Vacuum the room where I hang out when I’m at home & awake. This is the most labor-intensive because if/when I do it, I like to move what I can out of the room & sometimes move the furniture to get behind it.

The two alternate things, if I’m feeling up to it:

4) Clean out & organize my desk. My desk doesn’t have much storage, so it fills up quickly. It doesn’t help that I love paper.

5) Clean & organize the shelves above my desk. I purposely don’t put much up there because it would just get dusty & I like an empty spot for placing things short-term.
Sounds like you have a great plan. Keep trying it will get better.
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old May 22, 2023, 10:48 AM
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I finally got around to changing the bedroom curtains. The old ones were not possible to wash any more. We live near farms and the dust they kick up settles on everything and gets impregnated into the cloth. One also had the beginning of mold growth.

I had bought the new blackout curtains plus those sheer curtains that go close to the window probably two months ago, but could not get motivated to actually get around to it. Finally, yesterday, I got sick of looking at all the dust and grossness and took care of it. I cleaned the wall too and the hooks that had pet hair and dust on them.

It looks so much better. The new blackout curtain also blocks out light better, so we don't see lights like car headlights when we are trying to sleep. The material is thicker and should help keep the room warmer with the upcoming winter cold.

I was still a bit sad because the first thing we did when we moved into this house was installing those curtains.
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Old May 23, 2023, 07:44 PM
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Today’s stats:

Start time: 8:49am

1) Gather clean clothes in closet & dresser: 6 minutes.
2) Clean out bag: 1 minute.
3) Spray & wipe down shower: 33 minutes.
-Break-
4) Scrub toilet: 2 minutes.
5) Sweep & wipe down bathroom floor: 16 minutes.

End time: 10:59am.
Total time spent: 2 hours & 10 minutes.

I listened to part of an audio book while I was cleaning the bathroom, which made it more tolerable.
Sound like you have a great plan.
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old May 23, 2023, 07:46 PM
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I got a small organizer box to put stuff in that is now in my closet that took stuff off my entertainment center
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old May 28, 2023, 11:14 AM
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Thanks Buffy01. I’ve hit some milestones for this goal: I can now automatically vacuum my room once weekly without setting a timer for it & I’ve also used up one bottle of my homemade cleaning solution (1 cup distilled water, 1 cup cleaning vinegar, & 10ish drops lemon essential oil).

I’m here today because the bathroom is getting gross again and I dread cleaning it. It’s only going to get worse. It’s not so terrible: the surfaces just need to be wiped down. If I just start too, perhaps the family member I share it with will help pick up the slack, maybe?

But, yeah. Ugh…
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Old May 28, 2023, 01:41 PM
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Today’s stats!

Cleaning the Bathroom
1) wipe down mirror: 1 min
2) wipe down sink: 17 min
3)wipe down toilet & scrub toilet bowl: 8 min
-break- 10:20am to 10:44min
4) wipe down shower: 18 min
5) sweep & wipe down floor: 12 min

Start time: 9:52am
End time : 11:18am
Total time spent: 1hr & 26min

Notes: I’ve gotten much better & faster at cleaning since I do it for at least 40min now every day at work. My shower cleaner is a homemade solution: 1 cup cleaning vinegar & 1 cup blue Dawn dishwashing soap. First thing: squirt the toilet bowl cleaner so it can sit a few minutes before scrubbing. I used something called lime away that was in the bathroom already & it’s okay. I use two microfiber cloths for the surfaces, one as a wet wipe, the other dry with my other cleaning solution of 1 cup cleaning vinegar, 1 cup distilled water, & 10ish drops lemon essential oil. The bathroom looks much better now, not perfect, but better. For my mid cleaning break, I made myself some cinnamon toast for the carbs & sugar. Now I’m drinking a beer & listening to my how soon is now? Pandora radio station as a reward. I’m happy with it.
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Old May 29, 2023, 04:34 PM
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Thanks Buffy01. I’ve hit some milestones for this goal: I can now automatically vacuum my room once weekly without setting a timer for it & I’ve also used up one bottle of my homemade cleaning solution (1 cup distilled water, 1 cup cleaning vinegar, & 10ish drops lemon essential oil).

I’m here today because the bathroom is getting gross again and I dread cleaning it. It’s only going to get worse. It’s not so terrible: the surfaces just need to be wiped down. If I just start too, perhaps the family member I share it with will help pick up the slack, maybe?

But, yeah. Ugh…
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jul 08, 2023, 01:37 PM
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I cleaned out the gray cabinet today instead.

Start: 9:09am

1) top shelf: 1h, 13m

Break: 10:23am - 11:12am

2) bottom shelf: 1h, 20m

End: 12:32pm
Total time spent, including break: 3h, 23m

This felt horrible, but I pushed through anyway. I’ve identified about 30 books I want to donate to the little free libraries. In addition, I have a bag of trash & a bag of recycling. Now it’s time to zone out! I earned it.
Exactly 6 months later. I needed something to do. This gray cabinet is like a sort of catch-all for me, so it’s time to have another go at it.

1) clear the floor for a place to put stuff: 3min
2) empty gray cabinet of everything: 6min
3) wipe it down, inside & out: 5min
4) start putting it all back: 30min
#break#19min
5) finish putting it all back: 42min

Start time: 9:18am
End time: 11:02am
Total time spent: 1hr & 44min

Notes: I was glad I wrote about it earlier so I could be somewhat prepared for it to feel not great. I identified 25 books to donate; down 5 books from the time before. Still too much stuff, but I did pull out a few things to trash & papers to recycle.

Next steps: list donateable books from shortest to longest for the ones I want to read first. Clean out containers. Organize books I’m keeping so the reference books are easier to access instead of organizing them by size.
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Old Jul 08, 2023, 03:00 PM
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Next steps: list donateable books from shortest to longest for the ones I want to read first.
Listed 13 shortest to longest and added them to the to be read pile. Identified 7 to take to the little free library tomorrow, hopefully. Four are to be skimmed and saved for my own little free library if I ever get it done & placed. One is to be donated to the regular library. Good progress.
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Old Jul 08, 2023, 04:54 PM
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We just decluttering some of our dishes to donation
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Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch.

Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jan 14, 2024, 02:56 PM
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I’m not feeling like doing anything productive, especially cleaning. I set a stopwatch to clean the top of my desk: 25 minutes. It’s a good thing too, since I found some mail about my health insurance that needed actions taken.
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