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Old May 12, 2009, 03:10 PM
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Hey I need guidance and help. I went to a psch ward for a week for my life was getting out of control. I need help that my mom had always treated me like a child and that when I called to talk to her and see if she can bring change of clothes for me, she had made up lies after lies to the nurses and to my dad about stuff. She told the nurses that there were lots of blood in my aparetment and told my dad that she had me commited. I signed myself in and signed out and I there was no blood in my apartment.

I feel like she is having me push her far away from me that I dont have nothing to do with her. I know for any family that have a love one in a psych ward will be confused and stuff.
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Old May 13, 2009, 03:18 AM
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jmo - it seems like she is getting attention this way...... maybe thats why? or maybe she is so concerned she is lieing to try to keep you safe?

either way I hope you are ok
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Old May 13, 2009, 03:23 AM
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jmo - it seems like she is getting attention this way...... maybe thats why? or maybe she is so concerned she is lieing to try to keep you safe?

either way I hope you are ok
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Old May 13, 2009, 08:20 AM
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Does your mom have a mental illness?
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Old May 13, 2009, 02:20 PM
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Does your mom have a mental illness?
I am not sure if my mom has a mental illness or not. She sometimes would not let me grow up and more I keep finding what she done I feel like she is just pushing me away. She talked to my sis in law parents about some stuff and disappointed that she told her parents what is going on.

I feel betrayed. I gotta talk to her she was kinda enough to wash my clothes. I just come yesterday and found out many stuff
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Old May 14, 2009, 09:43 AM
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Keep us posted..........
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Old May 15, 2009, 04:09 PM
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Keep us posted..........
Thanks all for the help and support. One of the counselour at the church I go to and see is looking for support groups for those who cut. As well talked to my boss and ask her if get stress or something if I could take a break or for some reaso
n whatever it may be listen to music through head set. They dont have a problem with it.
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Old May 16, 2009, 08:30 AM
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Thats great Littlejohn - I hope it works out for you
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Old May 21, 2009, 12:38 PM
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Thanks all for the help and kind words. I am figuring more how to deal with the addiction and stuff that come with self-harm. I think mostly what works the best is not keeping things bottle up. I used to keep things bottle up
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Old May 21, 2009, 01:19 PM
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Good Work!!!!!!!!!
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Old May 21, 2009, 05:06 PM
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I think mostly what works the best is not keeping things bottle up. I used to keep things bottle up

thats a great insight littlejohn and very true
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